Help, I have scewed up bad and seek quick advice.?

My boyfriend who is 20 and I had a fight at a party and he left very very mad. I felt like he was trying to control me so I stayed and got very very drunk, a very very bad mistake. I ended up at another party and am very hungover today. The memories are now starting to trickle-in and I am very ashamed of what I did. The question is...should I tell my boyfriend now what happened or chance that he will not find out himself as there was allot of older men present and nobody within the goup I recall knowing.





SandraHelp, I have scewed up bad and seek quick advice.?
Well Sandra either it is your husband or your boyfriend? which is it? By all means tell him and get it out in the open. he will find out sooner or later im sure from someone and then you will be in deep ****. So tell him and blame him for leaving you alone if you want maybe that will help his attitude when he hears what you did.Help, I have scewed up bad and seek quick advice.?
i say be honest wit him. but let him cool down first. cause no tellin wat he might do if he's mad at cha.
It depends upon how bad the mistake. If you know that telling your boyfriend will end your relationship then lets face it, your not going to tell him. I believe in being honest but you have to realize once in awhile that by doing so you will end things as surely as if they find out themselves.
Tell him the truth now! lying is not good for either of you! maybe you shouldn't drink.
Talk to him, tell him what you did and how it made you feel.
If the shoes were on the other foot wouldn't you want him to be honest with you. Tell him the truth because eventually he will find out anyway so you should tell him because he would rather hear it from you than someone else. Hopefully, you have learned from your mistake. Good Luck:)
Talk to him and see why he was actually mad. A lot of times when women go to parties and start drinking, their boyfriends feel that they are making fools out of themselves and should behave better than that. If your boyfriend feels this way you should talk it out with him. If he was just trying to control you then you were in the right to have a good time.
Don't EVER EVER tell him! Did you really need to ask this question? He was being a jerk, you were drunk... things happened. So what! Sure it was wrong, but you can't erase the past, and you don't want to lose your boyfriend, do you? Even if you tell him, and he claims to forgive you, he will never trust you again, regardless. Every woman has some naughty dirt in their past, whether or not they want to admit it. You were an awful, terrible person and you should be ashamed of yourself, and you are, aren't you? Good. Now let that shame be your secret and your punishment, and never tell him. And if someone else tells him, LIE! Deny everything and say '; Honey does that even sound like me? I love you, you know I would never do anything like that to you.'; And don't keep on about it, because an innocent person wouldn't. Trust me, it works. Do what I'm telling you, and you're in the clear.
Don't worry about telling him - the video is online - just send him a link! drunks.com





And what were you thinking while you were up on the ping-pong table??? For shame!!
well Sandra it all depends on what the fight was about....if it was over jealousy...then he has no right to get mad at you....if you were flirting at the party...then thats another story....what happened after he left is only your responsibility...up to you to decide whether to tell him or not...good luck