Hubby have a platonic relationship with ex gf, ex gf keep saying I love you to my hubby..seeking advice?

My hubby and her ex-gf still having in contact with each other. we already talk about this before, but still in my gut its the ex making in contact with him and saying love you to him. i can understand if there's no love word.Hubby have a platonic relationship with ex gf, ex gf keep saying I love you to my hubby..seeking advice?
This is not right. You should have a talk with your husband. Tell him that you will not tolerate them being friends as long as this woman is acting this way. If this woman was his true friend she should respect your marriage and would not do things like this. I personally do not believe in your significant other being friends with their ex's, but that is just my personal opinion. If you are good with this then more power to you, but stand your ground on her inappropriate behavior. I would also talk to her and say...look I really want us all to be friends, but I would appreciate it if you would respect that I am married to this man and I find it inappropriate that you are telling him that you love him. Just say this with grace because you do not want to look insecure in your own relationship. It simply just isn't appropriate behavior. Hopefully she will understand and back off. best wishesHubby have a platonic relationship with ex gf, ex gf keep saying I love you to my hubby..seeking advice?
A truly platonic relationship is going to use the ';L'; word, but truly platonic relationships are misunderstood in today's society and we haven't seen a successful one since Plato.





I'd be suspicious of the gal. Your husband either fancies himself a genius cheater (he's not) or he is dim as a flashlight with no batteries.
1 Corinthians 13 : 4 - 8





4Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.





8Love never fails.





Let ur hubby's ex gf = X





It says love is not self-seeking. If X really loved ur husband she would not try to disrespect the sanctity of ur marriage by causing havoc in ur hubby's mind.





It also says ';It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.'; If ur hubby truly loves you, and is man enough to stick to his responsibility as your mate... then he will do the former





Use descernment and try to understand the real meaning of love





Good Luck and God Bless
There is no reason for his ex to continue to contact him after he married or even while he was dating his wife. My guess is that he is the one keeping the ex relationship alive. Talk to this ex. Calmly ask her why she contacts your husband because it makes you uneasy. Surely his ex has a boyfriend/husband that you can contact.
';Platonic relationship';.... riiiiiiiiiiight. You bought that load of bs? She wouldn't be saying I love you after all this time unless there were some reciprocal interactions between them. Honey, you'd better wise up, because he's trying to pull a fast one on you with those lines. Read ';Not Just Friends.';
i read what the other people had to say. I am corresponding with an ex and have been for 8 years. we are great friends and yes we have told each other we love one another, however we have enough respect for each others partners that it will never be anything more than a 35 year friendship. i am sure his wife probably wouldn't like that we talk but our conversations are about jobs kids parents and hobbies. totally benign. ask if you can read what she writes if your insecure. personally your husband has chosen to be with you on his own free will. that is why she is an ex
Platonic my ***. tell him that past gf can not be friends. it just never works. to either stop seeing her period. you are the wife. your feelings must come before his gf's. and whether the love word is used or not its time for hubby to grow up and remind him he already made his choice. time has come for people to get real. past boyfriends or girlfriends have no real place in current relationships. PERIOD
Why are they still communicating?! She's an ex...past...history. Is there a child involved?? Seems like she has an emotional attachment to him and that could be damaging to your marriage if he is put in a situation where he is tempted. You've talked about it before. Give him an ultimatium. It's her or me....
I don't understand why it's necessary for your husband, or any married person, to carry on a relationship with an ex girlfriend. is he holding on to her in case you dump him or what?





i wouldn't have it.
Can you say ';threesome';?


(Just kidding.)





Get ready for divorce.
You should demand he stop the relationship. the love word is out of place.