Get on messanger and have your do same you can chat to each other about all the little things that happen daily that you are missing by not being together. It is also a lot easier to be honest about feelings in writing, maybe when she hears how you are really feeling you'll find out she feels the same and decide to stop having a long distance marriage. Find out what your priorities are. Your family or money. If you can find time to have a ';FRIEND?'; You have time for your wife. Remember your sacred vow to love her till death. Would you want her doing what you are thinking of, because you know looking for a friend may sound harmless but it won't stay that way. Please try and be more realitic.Iam 52 alone and away from wife and kids.Works 15 hrs a day and need solace.I am in india and seek good advice
share and injoy what exactly............ try a coffee shop, or possibly a tour of the area, i know if i was there i'd take the tour get to know the coustomes, meet the locals that sort of thing
Learn yoga or to meditate to relieve your stress. These are things you can eventually do in private. Then, if you seek company, it will the kind of company that should please your wife and children.
Where are you staying? Aren't there some nice people already around you? I have been to India and there are many beautiful people there only too willing to be your friend. Try the ice cream parlours, they were very popular in the evenings. Perhaps you will meet someone there. Good luck.
Wait a minute, you want to be impromiscuous when you have a wife back at home? bring her to india, please safe her!! why do this to her and your children?? do SPORT. join some clubs where people chat generally and enjoy the company of one another. I would advice, self control
honestly, attend bible sharings..Jesus is there,he is ur friend,nice friend..and he helps u not only for ur being alone,but in everything u want in life! he can put u near to ur wife and kids too! and take note: he is really longing to be ur friend too!
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Take yoga.
try music
Now 52 is not an age to think you are old, people begins their career at 52.On the internet you can get plenty of friends, when you work keep working after work leave and enjoy yourself, music,(violin, flute is good),go to some beach if you have proximity to one. There you can see life, see other people their joy and plenty of oxygen, this is good to keep out stress.
Maybe you could write to your wife and kids and tell them how you are going and ask what they have been up to. They might be really interested in what you are doing in India (apart from the obvious).
Send for your family or develop a vice: alcohol, drugs, sports, prostitution, gambling, whatever. There are degrees to each, you understand, and some may be less... dangerous.
Working 15 hours a day you're pretty much screwed on the social life thing. Grab some guys from work and do something. A low-stakes poker game has always been one of my favorites.
Most countries have some kind of tradition of female companionship for pay. Maybe it's worth a couple hours pay once a week to have a conversation over beer with a pretty woman of questionable virtue. Anything more than a conversation is probably unwise.
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