Tuesday, August 24, 2010

45 yrs man seeking advice on part-time earning,sitting at home,without any investment.?

45 yrs man seeking advice on part-time earning,sitting at home,without any investment. pl share ur idea45 yrs man seeking advice on part-time earning,sitting at home,without any investment.?
buy gold!45 yrs man seeking advice on part-time earning,sitting at home,without any investment.?
My advise is stop being so lazy. Thats why America is going down the drain. No one wants to work but everyone wants to be rich.

How can i seek help and advice urgently?

I am employed by over a year by an international retail company. Since i began, i had no arguments or disagreement over my managers. While i was working last week, there was some sort of problem into what person should cover another person while he attended his lunch break, i disagreed to cover the fellow employee as i had many different tasks and role to complete by the end of the day. In my department, there are only 2 people including myself running the biggest department in the store whereas in another department, there were 5 people working. The question that i have is that why they keep constantly wanting me to cover the lunch break in which nobody else does. I am contantly forced to do this as these are no longer my intentions as i want my department to be the most organised. From the other department nobody is called to go on the checkout. I have found out that the employer is not following an Equal Opportunities Act inwhich i am given always doing this and others are not. The right that i also have is that i am given work overload, in which my department standards are not as best as they used to be. What other rights do i have into making sure that i am not always called to the tills and what action am i able to take, Please help.....really important, thanks..How can i seek help and advice urgently?
well you can talk to the other employees in that department and make a compromise and tell them about your situation...you guys could take turns covering..that would be fairHow can i seek help and advice urgently?
The Equal Opportunity Act says that you must have the same opportunities as you would have if you were another race, gender, etc. It does NOT prohibit employers make treating employees differently for any reason other than those specified in the law. While stupid, it is perfectly legal for an employer to select employees at random to be given more work than others.
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  • Staying at Radisson in Cancun downtown Seeking advice on meals and activities?

    My wife and 4 kids (16 15 8 %26amp; 3) will be staying at the Radisson in town (govt / financial district). Need advice on where to eat, walk to, drive to and other points of interest nearby exclusive of the typical tourist stops. Also ideas on transporation options pros and cons. ThanksStaying at Radisson in Cancun downtown Seeking advice on meals and activities?
    Well....here goes!!! For diving....I recommend a day trip to Isla Mujures.....great family trip and diving is wonderful. Just ferry over and enjoy!!! The best shopping street in downtown Cancun is Avenue Tulum. Restaurants......wow......La Parillia, Tacoloyte, el tapitio, Pericos, La Habituala......too many to mention. All the restaurants downtown are good...food and entertainment wise. Transportation options....bus, rental car, or taxi. The bus is the cheapest mode of transportation.....65 cents per person. Taxi....you must be careful...some will rip you off. Car rental....if this is your first trip to Cancun....stay away from this. Driving is crazy and the car rental places will rip you off if you are not careful. You will want to take the kids to Margaritaville for dinner one night.....it is wonderful entertainment for the entire family. They have kids night one night of the week 4-7...for the smaller kids.....use to be Thursday night, but might have changed this month being it is spring break season right now. The jungle tour is fun for the family.....and there is a water park if that is of interest to you. I prefer the beach myself. The Radisson is a good clean hotel......I think you will be pleased. There is a carnival downtown that is fun for some night time activities. I usually go at least one time to ride the crazy mouse!!!! Carlos and Charlies is also a good family restaurant for some good entertainment. There is so much to do....I can't begin to tell you everything. I think I have given you the best choices, but there are many others available. Just make sure to grab a welcome packet at the airport for some good discount coupons. The Mayan Ruins is a good educational trip, but there are ruins that are free to view in various places in Cancun.....some up near Dreams Resort in the hotel zone. Make sure you spray for mosquitos if you do this.......the mosquitos there are horrible. Also keep in mind....Red Cross will not take blood from anyone who has visited the Maya Ruins.....at least that is what I was told. You will have a wonderful trip....Cancun is the best!!!!Staying at Radisson in Cancun downtown Seeking advice on meals and activities?
    sorry i didn't stay at the radisson i stayed at royal solaris...anyway downtown has many great places to eat little alley-way shops and you can get many goods outside ur hotel cheaper..when i wanted the us today paper at my hotel it was 80 pesos=8 bucks!!!in that alley the next day i got it for 25 pesos! make sure you don't get hit by a hurricane while u r down there..

    I have jock itch and am seeking advice?

    im 16 and ive had it for about a week now. ive been using hydrocortizone cream and that hasnt seemed to help.I have jock itch and am seeking advice?
    jock itch is called by a fungus!!! it is called tinea cruris. you're going to need an ANTIFUNGAL not hydrocortisone, which is an antiinflammatory steroid. SO, you need to change meds, you can buy it OTC at the drug store and look specifically for an antifungal for jock itch. it's the only way to rid it. and dont scratch it, you will make it WORSEI have jock itch and am seeking advice?
    Hydrocortizone is a little harsh for that sensitive area and may increase the irritation, I'd suggest something gentler.





    To help with the itch make sure you wash thoroughly behind your foreskin and change your shorts every day.





    If it doesn't clear up in another week see your doctor. If you've recently had unprotected sex, see your doctor immediately.





    Good luck x
    Wash it, don't shave it :P
    then scratch it

    All Canadians. I seek your valuable advice and help, will appreciate your replies to my question.?

    Hi, i am from India and recently got my immigration for Canada. I am expected to leave for Canada by December. I sincerely seek you help and valuable advice so to pursue my journey to Canada in the right direction. I have done lot of self study for all the cities and provinces. Few places i got really attracted to, but unable to make out which one would be the ideal city. So, i seek help from all Canadians who are familiar with those places and can input some information for me. I will really appreciate your effort in guiding me in the right direction.





    I am a customer service professional. My wife runs her own fashion boutique and have a 3 year old girl. The places i like to settle are:





    1) Halifax (NS)


    2) Fredericton OR Moncton (NB)


    3) Saskatoon (SK)


    4) London OR Windsor OR Ottawa (ON)





    Somehow my interest lies more in the Maritimes due to housing affordability and several other factors, but unware of job situation there.


    Please let me know which one would be the best for me and my family to make our move to a beautiful country CANADA.





    Seeing the world economic meltdown, which place can you suggest me the best. I favor East Coast. Thanks to all and will be awaiting for your replies.All Canadians. I seek your valuable advice and help, will appreciate your replies to my question.?
    There's pros and cons to all those places.





    The East Coast in general is kind of getting hit hard by the economy. For the first time in decades they've had to create orphanages because people can't afford to take care of their children, and there aren't enough foster homes for children.





    The crime rate is a bit higher in Halifax, but if you want to live on the east coast and are in customer service, with your wife running a fashion boutique, it's probably your best bet. There's still enough people in Halifax who can afford things.





    I don't know too much about Saskatoon.





    London, Windsor and Ottawa are all about the same. Lots of Customer Service jobs available, quite possible to make a go of a fashion boutique. Windsor has a bit of a higher crime rate too.








    Good luck!

    Teen in seek of boy advice. Help you guys!?

    Okay, so I haven't had a boyfriend in a little over a year and I'm 13 btw (dont give me the your 2 young crap. and im a very mature 13). My last boyfriend and I really had alot in common but then he dumped me for my friend (thank god she decided not to say yes when he asked her out). I really liked him and it took me a while to get over him. I flirt alot with other guys now but I just don't seem to like any of them too much. I mean, I'll like them but not liked him (i dont get the butter flies and upity heart rate thing). I really want to like a guy like I liked him and I've found guys I've had chemistry with but it's just not like him. So what am I doing wrong? And what are some other just plain old tips from other guys out there?





    (any vulgar answers will be reported.)Teen in seek of boy advice. Help you guys!?
    i tink dat u gotTA GET ovr it gf....

    Would you seek emergency medical advice from Yahoo! Answers?

    I'm perplexed. The question below is one that is open here. I want to know if you would ask for medical advice that is of an urgent nature on Yahoo! Answers?





    (I'm also trying to figure out the logic of the event. The emergency occurs, the person who witnesses the emergency says: Stay right there, I'm going to Yahoo! Answers to find out what to do.) Here's how the question was posted...








    My sister just got shocked by a lamp while her hand was wet!!!!!?





    what should I do, her hand is numb, and it stings, she even says she feels shocks up her arm





    Please help!!!Would you seek emergency medical advice from Yahoo! Answers?
    That isn't the first time such questions have been posted. Some fellow fell off a ladder and asked if he should go to the ER for a crooked arm.





    There are also many questions of extremely personal medical variety here, which puzzles me, because if you are embarrassed to ask a doctor, why would you post for millions of people to see?





    Either these people are so unsure of themselves that they need someone to confirm their impulse to get help, or else they are more comfortable with the computer than picking up a phone and talking to actual medical people. Whatever, we do try to help them anyway, don't we? We tell them ';GO TO A DOCTOR!';Would you seek emergency medical advice from Yahoo! Answers?
    There is no way I would seek emergency help from yahoo answers.


    There is a reason they have emergency at the hospital.. I do hope the sister got medical care.
    Couple of issues here.





    Apparently, the original question was from someone in Malaysia. Many countries do not have easy access to medical care. So Y/A may be their best source for advice.





    Beyond that, the question indicated this was NOT an emergency. The woman is very much alive and simply has tingling and numbness. While certainly symptoms to be concerned about, it is not emergent.





    Beyond that, as a nurse, I have no problem with Y/A. I view it as no different than having a problem and asking your mother, brother, neighbor, friend... for advice. It doesn't mean that you will accept what they say 100% as accurate, but you roll it into the decision making process. And having viewed many answers over the years, more often than not, there is very sound advice given here... along with with some crappy... I grant you. But just like getting advice from a friend, you still have to have the common sense to filter out the bad in favor of the good.
    If, by your judgment, you or someone is seriously affected, you will do your best what you've remembered from FIRST AID: (A-B-C)


    AIRWAY: you'll check persons mouth to enable him/her to breath and you will put him/her into position where breathing pathways will stay open


    BREATHING: you'll check breathing by putting your face close to victim's nostrils; if no breathing, you'll start with artificial breathing.


    CIRCULATION: Check the pulse on the neck artery (left or right side of the throat). If there is no palpable pulse, you start with heart massage.





    DIABETICS often fall into hypoglycemic coma. If they are still aware, you lift the person into a chair and try to give him a Sweet drink. Otherwise you give an injection of glucagone or glucose, which diabetics have to have somewhere close...





    EPILEPTIC ATTACK - you try to prevent person from self-injury, e.g. you roll a napkin and put it between his/her teeth to prevent biting of the tongue.





    BLEEDING: press on the artery above the bleeding site...





    If someone eats a lot of fiber pills (OMG!), gets nasty sunburn, just got terrible diarrhea...then Yahoo answers may be handy - you can get useful advice and reassurance in minutes.

    Seeking advice on hiatal hernias?

    What foods and activity should be avoided when one has a hiatal hernia? I work out every other day with the treadmill and machines, nothing too strenuous, is it ok to continue?Seeking advice on hiatal hernias?
    Oi think I can help you with this question see this link http://www.sitegratis.xpgplus.com.br/ everything cn doubts in this very good hope have helped
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  • Engineering student seeking career advice?

    I am an engineering student, I am expected to pick a major next year, I am think either civil or mechanical. I would to know the pros and cons of each. I really need some insight.Engineering student seeking career advice?
    Either major can be the best major ever, or your worst nightmare.





    It seems like you know you want to be an engineer, that's great! Engineering will have you solving problems and creating solutions throughout your career.





    To differentiate between the two, I would have to ask you what you are passionate about. Are you in awe every time you pass over a large bridge or look up at a giant sky scraper? Or do you get really excited about a well designed car, airplane, or robot? Once you know what you want to work with, pick the major that will allow you to do that. If you like what you work with, you will go far in either field.





    Good luck with your choices ahead!Engineering student seeking career advice?
    Visit the Following Website that can answer your question more betterly then me,





    i got so much help from it and hope it will help you out too:





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    All Canadians. I seek your valuable advice and help, will appreciate your replies to my question.?

    All Canadians. I seek your valuable advice and help, will appreciate your replies to my question.?





    Hi, i am from India and recently got my immigration for Canada. I am expected to leave for Canada by December. I sincerely seek you help and valuable advice so to pursue my journey to Canada in the right direction. I have done lot of self study for all the cities and provinces. Few places i got really attracted to, but unable to make out which one would be the ideal city. So, i seek help from all Canadians who are familiar with those places and can input some information for me. I will really appreciate your effort in guiding me in the right direction.





    I am a customer service professional. My wife runs her own fashion boutique and have a 3 year old girl. The places i like to settle are:





    1) Halifax (NS)


    2) Fredericton OR Moncton (NB)


    3) Saskatoon (SK)


    4) London OR Windsor OR Ottawa (ON)





    Somehow my interest lies more in the Maritimes due to housing affordability and several other factors, but unware of job situation there.


    Please let me know which one would be the best for me and my family to make our move to a beautiful country CANADA.





    Seeing the world economic meltdown, which place can you suggest me the best. I favor East Coast. Thanks to all and will be awaiting for your replies.


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    All Canadians. I seek your valuable advice and help, will appreciate your replies to my question.?
    professions abroad are certainly an exciting notion, but you have to be really vigilant of the law-related implications, if you don't effect your research properly, there can be unpleasant conseqences! The website in the box below has lots of tips on professions abroad, my pal discovered it, now he is a barman in Tasmania!

    Seeking advice on my career path?

    I'm 23 and currently working on my associates degree in Broadcast Communications. I have about 20 credits to finish. For the last 7 years (because I took Audio Visual in high school) my heart was set on pursuing this as my career...but now I'm having doubts. I've decided to finish the degree because I have so little to go and then possibly pursuing something else. However, I constantly throw around ideas on what I want to do. I don't really have my heart set on one thing. Some of the career paths I have been thinking about are: teaching (high school or college; but no idea what I would want to teach) real estate; psychologist; possibly something in criminal justice (I have a kidney disease so it couldn't be a physically demanding job), or interior designer. As you can see I'm all over the place. I'd like to add that I'd rather have a career that I can enjoy and that is rewarding meaning money is not the most important factor...however, of course, I want to be financially stable.Seeking advice on my career path?
    Choosing a career path can be tough. Unfortunately, we can't always know in advance what exactly we want to do. Many people embark on careers only to decide later to follow a different path. Changing careers is common, so try not to put too much pressure on yourself to pick the ';best'; career. It sounds like you are interested in many things, which means you might have to just pick something to try and see where it leads you.





    You also mentioned the importance of financial stability. If you want to research salaries for different positions, there's a tool where you can type in a job title, see the career path for that job and the salaries for related job titles. It is at http://www.payscale.com/gigzig.aspx





    Best of luck with your exploration. I hope you find what you are looking for!





    Hope that helps,


    Assistant to Dr. SalarySeeking advice on my career path?
    i've felt the same way. i've been pre-pharmacy then biology, had my eyes set on business for a while, but ultimatley settled on chemistry. I realized that your education doesnt necessarily define what your career is going to be. But i would REALLY look into each of the paths you may have your eyes set on just to be sure you can count it out as a possible option.
    I was a Broadcast Communication major, too. Now I own a publishing company and have over a million dollars in the bank, plus my company is making lots of money.





    Hard work is the secret to success. Don't worry so much about your degree. Only computer science majors end up working in the fields they studied in college.
    ';Would you like me to give you a formula for success? It's quite simple, really. Double your rate of failure, You are thinking of failure as the enemy of success. But it isn't at all. You can be discouraged by failure or you can learn from it, So go ahead and make mistakes. Make all you can. Because remeber that's where you will find success.'; - Thomas J. Watson





    I say go for what you originally thought try it out. Ive allways thought you can survive anything for a year. At the very least you will get good work experince out of it. and a solid foundation ontop of your degree to move on to somthing else.





    Good luck!!! and definatly keep going with the degree. it doesnt really matter what it is but that you have it.

    Advice for an artist seeking to sell work?

    My cousin is an amazing artist who currently works in construction. I don't want him to waste his gift but neither of us know how he might get started selling some of his work. We were thinking of things like street fairs or small shops. Any ideas?Advice for an artist seeking to sell work?
    There's two basic routs you can take; online or local.





    If you want to try and sell things online you'll need to set up an account with EBay or Etsy.com, scan or photograph his work and post it up there. You might reach a wider audience with this method, but you'll have to deal with shipping and whatnot, which isn't usually an issue if you're selling locally.





    To go the local route, check out bulletin boards at any local collages with art programs, there should be postings about any upcoming shows/art fairs/etc. You could try locally owned restaurants and cafes, a lot of them will display works by local artists.Advice for an artist seeking to sell work?
    Before you spend a lot of money on fees and booths, test sell items on zazzle.com or ebay and see what people want and how much they are willing to pay. then make more of them and sell them at the booths, take names of interested parties and create community of people to sell new works to. finally he will be too busy to take new customers and increase the price of his works.





    Also maintain a copyright for your use so you can sell high res images of the works for your stock photography business. Sell it over and over!





    Goodluck.
    If your cousin has a computer and a scanner avaible to him, I would recommend an art site called 'DeviantART.com'.





    http://www.deviantart.com/





    Its free to sign up an account. You can upload your art easy. DeviantART features a place were you can sell prints of your art. Its a popular site, and people from all over who love art are swarming there. There are many people who would appreciate your cousin's art and buy it.





    Hopefully that helps you.

    Before deciding on marriage who's advice do you seek the most family or friends?

    well, not the bartender because he's been soooo wrong in the past.Before deciding on marriage who's advice do you seek the most family or friends?
    my invisible friend Kervik..even tho he is originally from Siberia and still learning our culture, he often dispells the most invaluable and benificial advice- especially regarding marriage i have found~

    Seek for any advice for relevant working experience and the routes to get into clinical psychology.?

    Hi everyone,


    I have a BSc degreet in Psychology. Although what I really want to do is Clinical Psychology, I gave myself a go to try another field in Business Psychology(MSc) last year. It let me found out that what I am really interested to do is still Clinical Psycholog.





    I am highly interested in helping children who have learning disability, PTSD, or suffer much from divorce or parental issues.....I am looking for relevant work that can lead me to study clinical psychology later, but I don't know what kind of institutions and organisations, or key words I should be looking for..... Could anyone give me any advice? I am ready to do one year volunteer work..... Besides, I also heard that I need to do some work under supervision, where can I possibily get that? Any website that I can look for?





    I have no clinical relevant working experience and I am an international student.... I really don't know who and where I can ask for such questions....





    Thanks for reading and helpSeek for any advice for relevant working experience and the routes to get into clinical psychology.?
    Are you British here in the United States? Or do you live in the UK? Responses will be different according to where you live.





    If you live in the United States, try researching:


    1. hospital programs with psychiatric or behavioral health programs - they often accept volunteers


    2. preschools, residential programs or even volunteer programs at elementary schools - depending on where you live, you may have to go through a ';process'; of applications and background checks, so be prepared


    3. social service agencies, community mental health centers, and services for the disabled like United Way


    4. contact professors at your local university and college - tell them that you are going to apply to grad school in clinical psych and that you are looking for volunteer experience - I did this and volunteered on a research program before entering grad schoolSeek for any advice for relevant working experience and the routes to get into clinical psychology.?
    social worker
    I know my brother-in-law started at Devereux as a mental health worker, they work with children and young adults with emotional, developmental, educational and cognitive disabilities. It's not huge amounts of pay but it will get your foot in the door for hospitals and clinical psychology.





    You may also want to look in job sites like careerbuilder.com and Monster.com, type in keywords like residential counselor and mental health concealer, look at the job descriptions and if you match or are close apply. Apply to more then on e or two the more you apply to the better your chances.
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  • For each zodiac sign, what kind of advice will you seek?

    Leos would probably give something like this -


    'Do you know what's the only thing that is wrong about you?You don't think BIG!You think small.You don't believe in yourself and you are afraid to take risks.Take risks,what can you possible lose?Become what you want to,you decide.Don't let people that don't dream stop you.You can do anything you want and achieve any lost dream no matter what.Now,do you believe me?'





    I'm a Leo and my mottoes are -


    Play to win


    Think big


    Don't let people that don't dream stop youFor each zodiac sign, what kind of advice will you seek?
    This really helps ---%26gt; http://www.myjellybean.com/astrology/bir…





    I'm a Leo and this is what they say about me ---%26gt;These folks can also be relied on in any situation. They tend to have a philosophic outlook on life. Yes, this is totally true.


    http://www.myjellybean.com/astrology/tre…

    Advice for a student seeking to apply for residency in another state?

    Anyone that has had success in doing so, please respond. I am moving to Indiana in the fall as a part-time student and my ability to do so, hinges on my ability to establish residency in the state (big difference between $1000 tuition and $3500 tuition).





    I'm going to be in Indiana for at least 6 years and I plan on working full time. What else do I need to do to prove that I want to be a hoosier??Advice for a student seeking to apply for residency in another state?
    check out the website


    in the faqs section is says that the requirement in indiana is 12 months





    unless your parents are moving there and you are under 21





    but not for legal guards for the purpose of going to school.

    Job seeking. Can you offer some advice on finding employment with chances for advancement?

    The bigger the company the more room for advancement. Also take all the training that is offered and keep a log of your trainings. Try to get any designations or certificates in your field. The people with the letters behind their name get promoted first. People complain about it all the time but the 'brown nozers' also get promoted over those with more skills.

    To the young Brit seeking alcohol advice (age limits) yesterday....?

    Wrong





    Under 5s - illegal (except medical emergency under supervision)





    Under 16 - allowed in the pub but not to drink





    16 - 17 - may consume beer, wine etc WITH A MEAL, in a pub/restaurant serving food.





    Under 18 - may not purchase alcohol, or be supplied with it, anywhere, private party or not.





    There that wasn't too hard was it. So have you learned that you cannot legally go and get drunk at your age?To the young Brit seeking alcohol advice (age limits) yesterday....?
    Fortunately I'm well over 18 and I'm gonna get drunk as a skunk this weekend - WOOHOO!To the young Brit seeking alcohol advice (age limits) yesterday....?
    over 5 legal indoors or in private private parties same as yesterday

    As a parent -do you involve or seek for your parents advice in your childs education?

    or for the overall progress of your child and do they contribute in anyway- financially or otherwiseAs a parent -do you involve or seek for your parents advice in your childs education?
    I smile vacantly whenever my parents start doling out the advice ... nod when appropriate ... and change the subject as soon as possible. I wouldn't accept any money from my parents as they'll need it to fund their future stay at ';Happy Acres.';As a parent -do you involve or seek for your parents advice in your childs education?
    i ask my parents advice in child raising all the time.
    No

    Seeking advice/opinions on progressive lenses vs. bifocals?

    I've worn bifocals for a few years and manage with them OK, but it I have to have separate glasses for the computer and it is a pain to change all the time. I've never had progressive lenses, so assume I know nothing about them. Some people seem to think they are terrible and some seem to think they are the best thing since apple pie. Any comments, suggestions, etc? Thanks.Seeking advice/opinions on progressive lenses vs. bifocals?
    I don't need glasses for distance (such as driving or movies), but I do for reading and for the computer and I love my progressive lenses because they provide a lot of flexibility in what stays in focus (whereas bifocals only have two in-focus areas).





    From talking at length with my optician, I really think it depends on what you need the glasses for the majority of the time. I would say it might be good for you to have a pair of glasses with progressive lenses for reading and working on the computer and a different pair just for distance (if you need that).





    Having a great optician who will listen to you and talk with you about all your options helps a lot. Some opticians (and the glasses makers they work with) will also let you try your progressive lenses for a few weeks to see if they're going to work for you.





    Here are two good pages that explain the details of the different types of lenses:


    http://www.allaboutvision.com/lenses/pro鈥?/a>


    http://www.allaboutvision.com/lenses/mul鈥?/a>Seeking advice/opinions on progressive lenses vs. bifocals?
    I went straight to progressives and have been VERY disappointed. They work great for around the house, driving, etc., but are absolutely worthless for the computer. I'm looking at getting glasses made just for computer use. Think about it...the distance is further than regular reading yet too close for distance use. A good optician can do that for you.
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  • I would like to open up shop for a tax business this up coming tax season. Seeking advice?

    I have no advice for you at this time.

    Advice sought on repairing and painting old wood panelling in a living room?

    I live in old cottage and want to improve the appearance of a half wall of old wood panelling ( think it's old chestnut) all around the living room and fireplace. Many of the panels are all cracked down there lengths and the whole lot has been painted a hideous colour that i want to repaint in a more acceptable shade of beige or stone colour as i don't think the wood underneath would be much good if it where all stripped. Is it always necessary to strip all the paint before repainting? and would wood putty help to disguise the cracks or would that be a bad idea? i just want to improve the appearance as much as possible In any case i know it will be a long laborious job so any advice from all you DIY enthusiasts out there would be appreciated.Advice sought on repairing and painting old wood panelling in a living room?
    Primer is for bare surfaces and there are some specialist primers for problem surfaces. Old paint is neither and it would be an unnecesary expense to prime it. It needs an undercoat and either a satin or gloss finish.





    If the wood was originally varnished or woodgrained (wood grain effect) then it really ought never have been painted afterwards and all future paint will be a little prone to chipping; however, if someone has already made that decision for you, then carry on painting as normal wood - ie. one or two undercoats and finish coat(s). Oil-based paints are generally better wearing, learn how to use a small 4 inch foam roller on panels and apply thin and stretch the paint out to have a flat finish.





    I would not put putty in the cracks as it can take weeks/months to dry and could distort the paint you apply over it - and it is unnecessary. Use a two-part catalytic filler - this is one where you have a tub of filler and a tube of hardener and when you mix the two together you have between 5 and 15 mnutes to apply it (depending on the weather) before it goes off like rock.





    It is not necessary to strip your old paint off where it is soundly attached. Key the surface with a P80 grit abrasive paper and paint.Advice sought on repairing and painting old wood panelling in a living room?
    Yes, I would think that filling the cracks with wood putty would be fine. After you fill in the cracks, sand the entire wall, then I would put on a coat of primer. The primer will help to cover the old color, and your color will look better and last longer.





    I'm sure it will look awesome - have fun!
    If the paint is craked and peeling, you need to sand it down.





    Afterwards use a wet sponge and wipe it all down





    You can use a primer like ';kilz';.








    after that, you can paint or stain any color youwant.



    these cracks will look natural if you paint over them and even give a feel to the room! note: always remember what that final look will be painting!
    I would try to accentuate the age of the walls. Don't drive yourself insane trying to putty over all the cracks. More cracks will show up, eventually, and you'll forever be trying to maintain the look. I think more than anything, the color of the walls is what's so troublesome to you.





    Start by lightly sanding the walls. From there, choose two colors of paint to use in conjunction with one another. A good color combo is a warm/cool one. You mentioned stone or beige. Use both. Paint the walls in a flat finish in beige. Put some of the stone color paint in a small container, put some water in another container, then grab some clean rags. Dip the rag in the paint then in the water, then start smudging on top of the beige. It'll be messy but fun. Don't go for perfection, just stipple it on, smear it on, play with it to see what you might like. If you get too carried away with the stone color, you can always smudge some of the beige back on top of it to tone it down.





    This will give you a natural aged look with more depth. A single color of paint will actually emphasize the cracks and make them look like flaws. A dual-toned wall makes the cracks less noticable, but when they're seen, they're seen as part of the ambiance.

    Athlete seeking advice about pain medication?

    I am an athlete and, due to a painful shoulder injury, i have been illegally taking the drug oxycotonevery few days or so. How much does the drug oxycoton or oxycodone effect overall fitness and muscle growth after workouts?Athlete seeking advice about pain medication?
    Be careful dude.... Once the prescription monster gets a hold of you, it's all down hill from there, and getting back up is most difficult. The only reason I say this, is because you said you take them illegally.Athlete seeking advice about pain medication?
    my huby went through this and eventually tore his rotater cuff.....it was slightly tore before but working out with heavy weights did its toll. I would slack off on the work out see what happens if it does not ease up then see a dr...if you dont it could cost you about 30,000 bucks...that is what it cost for my husbands surgery...and the healing process wasnt pretty....
    None oxycoton is a muscle relaxer not growth. Also if you get drug tested it will show up as a narcotic.
    it is very bad for you liver and stomach,try a topical pain reliever like icy hot.

    25 year old woman seeks advice for birth control pills?

    i want to understand why bc pills contain 21 tablets and the other 28... how will i know which number of tablets is suited for me25 year old woman seeks advice for birth control pills?
    Actually 21 pills are all that contain the actual medication. The last 7 in the 28 pack are placebo pills (sugar pills) designed to help you remember to take your birth control everyday.





    So either one can be suited for you. but if you like to keep in the habit of taking the pill everyday, than maybe you need to opt for the 28 pack.25 year old woman seeks advice for birth control pills?
    Your health care professional can help you with finding the right dosage. Another form of b/c that you may want to consider is the Nuva Ring. You insert the ring into your vagina you leave it in for 28 days and on the 28th day you remove it. After you menstruate you insert the new ring 7days later. It is awesome no worrying about forgetting to take the pill. Most men say they can not feel the ring. However if it is uncomfortable for your partner you can remove it during intercourse and you are still protected. It is a rubber ring that releases hormones like the ones found in oral contraceptives. This is just an idea. I always hated the pill because I would miss doses sometimes.
    It may take several months to determine what type of birth control pills are best for you. Let your doctor know your concerns.Your physician will help with your questions.
    21 contain hormones, 7 contain iron, this last week (7 days) is when you should get your period. the seven are just to keep the concistency of taking the pills.
    the other 7 pills are just sugar to keep you in the habit of taking the pills during your period.
    when you talk to your doctor and you tell them you cycle ,they determine if you are 21 or 28 ,im assuming
    Differant potency. different drug.
    u should visit a doctor before u start taking any of them! the doctor should tell u which type is suiable for ur body!

    Why do people have negative answers when someone is seeking out advice and/or help?

    I've been reading a lot of questions and answers on here and I must say that people are rude when someone asks a general question. For example, I was reading a question from a woman who wanted to know if anyone knew any government grant sites because she is continuing her education and she is also a single mother. Someone answered her question and told her that she needed to go to community college and stop having babies. How outrageous is that? Why do people feel that they need to answer questions? Why the attitude, why be rude? I don't understand it. Now some people ask silly questions and stuff but that's beside the point. If you are going to be mean and rude, why even bother?Why do people have negative answers when someone is seeking out advice and/or help?
    You sure hit that nail on the head. If you don't have something nice to say, don't say it. No one knows what's going on in someone else's life and a rude and unkind answer is uncalled for. I don't understand either, I see an awful lot of very judgmental answers and find them out of bounds.





    On the other hand, reading answers that are compassionate and informative outway the inconsiderate ones.Why do people have negative answers when someone is seeking out advice and/or help?
    Because their usually just ignorant knuckleheads that have no life other than that of idiot. The louder the voice the more ignorant the person is. Pay them no mind because it's just not worth it.
    The web offers no accountability, hence, if a person just wants to be inconsiderate for the heck of it, they can. Also, many but not all of the answerers here are trolls--they just enjoy getting a rise out of anyone for the sheer heck of it because misery loves company. Same goes for those who rate answers negatively--I know I got a -10 for some of the answers that I contributed to Yahoo! Answers, and most of what I answered was not done in a negative or condescending manner. You can't stop folks from being rude and your best bet is to try to stay as diplomatic and as positive as you can.
    Because they are more interested in espousing their opinion, not an answer. And people who do that normally have negative opinions because they lack the capacity to answer the question in the first place.





    There is a well-known saying ';Experts have Opinions, but having an opinion does not make you an expert.';





    Unfortunately the nature of Yahoo! Answers allows anyone with an opinion to espouse it and so they do...frequently.





    Thanks for the question.


    Mark
    I think Yahoo Answers was a really great place to help others with questions. Unfortunately, as you have noticed some ruin it and there's nothing you really can do about it so I don't think Yahoo Answers is all that great anymore. I only answer the ones that I think are legitimate. Too bad there are some who aren't interested in helping people.
    Because people are stupid. They think they are sooooo funny if they say stupid stuff like that. just ignore it.
    I totally agree. People are comeing here for serious advice and getting bogus answers like that. It is not only rude, it obnoxious. I can completely understand where you are comeing from. I was on here and feel the same way when i read things like that. If you were being stupid on here you need to get off. People are not hear smart as# answers and they may actually need help. I am tired of this crap as well.
    Some questions do invite a witty answer, but I agree some people are just downright rude, to serious questions. Guess that is how they get their kicks. They are lonely.
    its a public anonymous forum so you have to sift thru th egood and the bad. Sometimes there is a grain of truth also in those that are being crude or mean.


    Like going to community college and not having babies comment-could be said more politely like.... Check out all options..sometimes community college is a good deal fo r the money an d offers classes at night where you can work and go to school . Later you could transfer to a 4 yr college once you have accomplished the first degree of 2 yrs and the child is older


    In the meantime check out what your goals are to balance career and family. Prioritize those goals and if career is very important, reflect on what size family you will have in the future in order to accomplish that goal and take care of your family. Decide how much time you will have for socializing and be realistic .If you are to study seriously and take care of kids you will need to eliminate some favorite activites and free time as well as sacrifice material goods and comforts.Separate wants from needs.


    Involve the father and insist on support through coursts if needed.


    Its all about priorities and choices. Kids have to take priority, no question, but you can still follow your dreams though perhaps not in as grand or fast way as you may have planned before kids.


    Now see a rude person wouldnt have used all that slow and flowery language but has still given the point. So even those answers can have value as the perosn may listen to it and do some serious reflecting.


    Just some thoughts
    Well some are just silly, some are just down right mean, I'll say to care about another feeling as if they were your own, and that's what other people should think about before they answer anyone question.........
    not everyone is negative.. probably a bulk are... then there are the questions being asked here that really belong being asked to a medical professional, and those get annoying..





    easiest thing I've found is to ask real questions (unless in obvious fun) and give serious answers.. then read the answers you like, read that person's profile and get a feel for what they ask and how they answer to see how you'll take it.





    this forum covers the globe, people from 7 to 70 (just using numbers) use this, so problems run the gamut
    There are a lot of teenagers on this site that don't have the answer, but they're trying to get a laugh at other people's expense.
    Some do it just trying to be ';cute';, and to get a buzz for themselves.


    Some just for the points, so they say whatever.


    Give them a hands down......!





    I think some questions that are ';out there'; may be quite legitimate, because it takes all kinds......you've heard the expression about ';there being no stupid questions??';, well, this board may be an argument for that one.
    well some people are idiots and bullies. theyve been brought up or influenced by similar people and find it ok
    There are rude people in all walks of life, but more so online because people who'd never dare say such things in person do feel they can do so when sitting safe at home typing on a site where they're only known by a nickname.





    Still it's better to ignore such people. Sometimes a person may just feel very strong about one specific topic, but most such rude people are just doing it to get a rise out of people. When you're asking questions like this, they love it! It's just what they want. Better to either ignore them or report them quietly, but don't ever address it and call even more attention to them, that only encourages them.
    Dose this make it any different ?
    because humans have fault and plenty..
    Some people, sadly I include myself in this, have a very warped sense of humor.





    I find it funny when I read something like that. Does the person who wrote that about the single mother actually believe that?


    No. But it is funny to him/her... and myself (not proud of it but just being honest) It's entertainment.





    What is good is that some people really do take the time to research the questions and give very informative answers. All you have to do is skip through the ones you don't like. It's that easy!
    Honestly, im rude to dumb people who ask dumb questions like for example this one person asked if anyone believed in Bloody Mary. So I gave a stupid answer back, but I also see stupid people answering questions that honestly they have no idea what the person is asking! If you read a question and you have a smart a$$ remark to say, don鈥檛 say it at all!!!!
    America has become a rude society. The world is in the age of Aquarius and it is cold, distant, like many of those people at times.





    Many of the people on this forum do not understand that while some people wish to vent, others are really seeking help and rather than be helpful they just release their barrage of criticism.





    It would help if the Yahoo! Answers did not give points for negative answers. You see, a person can answer negatively and still obtain the points that a good answer receives.





    Yahoo! Answers is just like the folks out in the world you see today. You see them on the street, the restaurants, on call in shows (tv %26amp; radio). It is a whole group, or movement, of people who either don't have any problems or they have ';dickey doo'; problems, like the Brady Bunch and they can't understand that everyone is not perfect or without problems.





    They criticize and they are able to look down on other people. It gives smug satisfaction.
    i think that it's people who have nothing better to do wit their time. I'm sure there are alot of mature adults on here that just want insight from people who they don't know, which alot of times helps because our family and friends sometimes judge us. i think this is a great thing for mature people. those people who are going to be rude just need to find another hobby.
    People do that because they don't know any better. They haven't been in the other person's shoes, and they haven't had the experience of ';really'; needing. So, just know that they know not what they do and don't let it bother you. People can't help themselves - we really can't.
    Some people live to troll others.


    They are looking to get a rise out of people.


    Some people are simply negatively opinionated.


    Some people are just jerks.


    The reasons for people to do things like that can range from simple boredom, to a psychological need to belittle others in an attempt to feel better about oneself.


    No single answer can really suffice for all of that sort of behavior.

    If I were to offer free advice, would you seek it?

    Nope, thats why I pay for my therapist. Too many people get mad if they give you free ';advice'; and then don't do what they suggest.If I were to offer free advice, would you seek it?
    It depends on what your qualifications are and what kind of advice you were freely offering. I may not need your particular advice and/or I may not think you were qualified to advise me.If I were to offer free advice, would you seek it?
    I might seek it, but I don't necessarilly have to accept it
    You would have to pay me even to listen to you.
    Isn't that what your doing, but in the reverse order?
    Yup!! i would but its not sure that i follow your advice
    No, thank you
    give me one
    it depends upon yr capability to advice people like us,who r on the path of self discovery.
    Who are you? What are you?
    maby
    No. Free advice is usually worth exactly what you paid for it.
    You don't seem to be any good at it, since you are the one asking for advice via this question...
    Depended on what it was about. The only thing that I need help with is some family law.. child support, custody.. all that jazz.. otherwise, I'm a pretty well rounded individual who's quite knowlegeable about most things, and can make decisions for herself.
    Yeah. I mean if it's good advice and makes some sorta sense, I will.
    Oh yes, please do.





    I'm waiting.





    Well,..... anytime now.
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  • Does seeking the advice of Ahli Nujum for choosing dates are againts Islam?

    what do you mean by choosing dates?? like marriage dates??





    seeking advise...i think is ok...Does seeking the advice of Ahli Nujum for choosing dates are againts Islam?
    Who is Ahli Nujum???Does seeking the advice of Ahli Nujum for choosing dates are againts Islam?
    Yes.

    Seek for astro advice?

    my dob is 17th may 1971, place of birth maharaehtra, india. time -4.45 pm,birth name 'kholaji'. can any astrologer tell me regarding my success in politics.i want enter in politics in 2008Seek for astro advice?
    You are the BULL by horoscope and policy is not good solution for you. The Bulls big problem is obstination, mean you don't want to hear other people opinions but realize just own ideas because they think they are always right. In the list of the famous public persons you'll find actors,actrees, book-writers and some kings and queens but there is no one from policy. Therefore think about your future again. Veradisca %26amp; Best Regards, Neven.Seek for astro advice?
    you should do well as you are a nutter by the sound of it
    Good Luck to be a successful politician you have to be a born liar.

    Accuracy of the advice given to people seeking friends in High School?

    A lot of the advice for people wanting to make friends in high school because they have no whatsoever or in the class, consist of just talking to people. I have found that people with at least one friend in the classroom don't like it when another person tries to make friends with them. They are nice to your face but laugh with each other about ';that kid that follows them around and always buts in';. I don't want people who just didnt have the oppurtunities to make friends early to risk being that annoying kid. What do you think? Accuracy of the advice given to people seeking friends in High School?
    it probably depends on the people you are talking with. Not everyone is like that. People should try talking with others who have a similar appearance.. that is probably the way to start it off. It might sound kinda shallow, but its what usually happens. People who are into the same things tend to look alike in ways. or act alike. and if someone gets in with the wrong group and is called the ';loser dork follower'; they don't have to stay. They could go find another group. You just have to keep trying untill you find someone who you click with. if you dont try, you'll never know.

    Hubby have a platonic relationship with ex gf, ex gf keep saying I love you to my hubby..seeking advice?

    My hubby and her ex-gf still having in contact with each other. we already talk about this before, but still in my gut its the ex making in contact with him and saying love you to him. i can understand if there's no love word.Hubby have a platonic relationship with ex gf, ex gf keep saying I love you to my hubby..seeking advice?
    This is not right. You should have a talk with your husband. Tell him that you will not tolerate them being friends as long as this woman is acting this way. If this woman was his true friend she should respect your marriage and would not do things like this. I personally do not believe in your significant other being friends with their ex's, but that is just my personal opinion. If you are good with this then more power to you, but stand your ground on her inappropriate behavior. I would also talk to her and say...look I really want us all to be friends, but I would appreciate it if you would respect that I am married to this man and I find it inappropriate that you are telling him that you love him. Just say this with grace because you do not want to look insecure in your own relationship. It simply just isn't appropriate behavior. Hopefully she will understand and back off. best wishesHubby have a platonic relationship with ex gf, ex gf keep saying I love you to my hubby..seeking advice?
    A truly platonic relationship is going to use the ';L'; word, but truly platonic relationships are misunderstood in today's society and we haven't seen a successful one since Plato.





    I'd be suspicious of the gal. Your husband either fancies himself a genius cheater (he's not) or he is dim as a flashlight with no batteries.
    1 Corinthians 13 : 4 - 8





    4Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.





    8Love never fails.





    Let ur hubby's ex gf = X





    It says love is not self-seeking. If X really loved ur husband she would not try to disrespect the sanctity of ur marriage by causing havoc in ur hubby's mind.





    It also says ';It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.'; If ur hubby truly loves you, and is man enough to stick to his responsibility as your mate... then he will do the former





    Use descernment and try to understand the real meaning of love





    Good Luck and God Bless
    There is no reason for his ex to continue to contact him after he married or even while he was dating his wife. My guess is that he is the one keeping the ex relationship alive. Talk to this ex. Calmly ask her why she contacts your husband because it makes you uneasy. Surely his ex has a boyfriend/husband that you can contact.
    ';Platonic relationship';.... riiiiiiiiiiight. You bought that load of bs? She wouldn't be saying I love you after all this time unless there were some reciprocal interactions between them. Honey, you'd better wise up, because he's trying to pull a fast one on you with those lines. Read ';Not Just Friends.';
    i read what the other people had to say. I am corresponding with an ex and have been for 8 years. we are great friends and yes we have told each other we love one another, however we have enough respect for each others partners that it will never be anything more than a 35 year friendship. i am sure his wife probably wouldn't like that we talk but our conversations are about jobs kids parents and hobbies. totally benign. ask if you can read what she writes if your insecure. personally your husband has chosen to be with you on his own free will. that is why she is an ex
    Platonic my ***. tell him that past gf can not be friends. it just never works. to either stop seeing her period. you are the wife. your feelings must come before his gf's. and whether the love word is used or not its time for hubby to grow up and remind him he already made his choice. time has come for people to get real. past boyfriends or girlfriends have no real place in current relationships. PERIOD
    Why are they still communicating?! She's an ex...past...history. Is there a child involved?? Seems like she has an emotional attachment to him and that could be damaging to your marriage if he is put in a situation where he is tempted. You've talked about it before. Give him an ultimatium. It's her or me....
    I don't understand why it's necessary for your husband, or any married person, to carry on a relationship with an ex girlfriend. is he holding on to her in case you dump him or what?





    i wouldn't have it.
    Can you say ';threesome';?


    (Just kidding.)





    Get ready for divorce.
    You should demand he stop the relationship. the love word is out of place.

    Can u give me advice how to seek people with proper manner?

    Be Polite, and Patient. Keep yourself calm and controlled... i.e. control of your six senses gives you control on world / mankindCan u give me advice how to seek people with proper manner?
    There are always ';good guys'; and ';bad guys'; every where. They sometimes are where you least expect them.Can u give me advice how to seek people with proper manner?
    just meet everyone, and learn as you go.

    Dear Book Agents, Editors, Publishers, and Published Authors: I am seeking advice.?

    I am an avid reader and writer. I would like to know what advice you can give a young enthuastic writer, such as myself.Dear Book Agents, Editors, Publishers, and Published Authors: I am seeking advice.?
    Keep on writing. Get feedback from other and when you have enough substantial feedback, that's the time to consider publishing it.





    Writers like you have every potential to get started on a publishing career. If you are looking for self-publishing companies to publish your book, I know of a few companies that practically holds court to everything a book needs from getting you your copyright, size preferences, book cover design customization, layout consultation, copyediting and even marketing – at affordable costs.





    There is never too much space in the publishing world. There will always be room for more. :)





    Good luck.Dear Book Agents, Editors, Publishers, and Published Authors: I am seeking advice.?
    The more you write, the better you become. I look back on a ton of my early writing, and it is absolute garbage. The only way to greatness is dedication, research, and practice!
    Write every day. Improve your style, work on technique and craft as much as the creativivity. School will help you become a better writer life will give you worthwhile subjects to write about.
    First you will have to state what you need advice on. Until then, all I can offer is;





    This above all to thine own self be true. ~Shakespeare.
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  • Why is Obama seeking advice on how to fix the economy?

    http://news.aol.com/elections/article/obama-seeks-advice-on-ailing-economy/234237Why is Obama seeking advice on how to fix the economy?
    Too avoid the massive failures of ';going it alone'; that the current moron in office made.Why is Obama seeking advice on how to fix the economy?
    One of the hallmarks of a good president is to get the best advice and adapt it. Clinton had some of the best brains in the world. Obama shows that hes leaning that way too. Competency is a wonderful thing.


    Its nice to see it coming back into style.


    The Presidency of the US is a very multifaceted position, Obama never claimed to have all the answers, that was McCain during the second debate, when he was wandering around the stage. I know how to end the war, I know how to get Osama, I know how to fix the economy.


    I hope he left plans to go with those words.
    Common sense would dictate that he call upon specialists to advise him.





    He studied Law and International Politics not Economics.





    If your bathroom has a leak, call Joe the Plumber, if your economy is in collapse call an Economist.





    Clearly he understands the political implications of the economy and understands that it is a global problem. An Economist would not have a broader view of the political implications, or the influence to do anything about it.
    Because all he can do between now and Jan 20th after the speeches and before the balls as far as governance goes is sit in a lame duck congress if any one calls one.





    He not only has policies to consider but positions down the deputy directorate level to fill. He wants to make certain he has the right policies to state in his inaugural speech, but also the right people to carry them out.
    isn't it amazing , we have been on this forum for months asking questions and Obama supporters had them all because Obama was the man and knew everything , now you get answers like , ';he is a lawyer not an economist'; What next well he was only an unaccomplished Jr senator not a seasons political head? . Was it not his ';economic knowledge'; that got him elected?
    It's a good thing to get many opinions, I just hope he listens more to Nobel prize winning economist Joseph Stiglitz rather than the Neoliberal Citigroup Robert Rubin.





    Robert Rubin is in part responsible for supporting the policies that pushed us to the brink of a great recession. When the subprime mortgage crisis hit, instability and collapse spread across numerous industries. Rubin also pushed for more deregulatory policies that ended up shifting jobs, and entire industries, overseas.





    Rubin even pushed for Clinton’s dismantling of Glass-Steagall, testifying that deregulating the banking industry would be good for capital gains, as well as Main Street. “The banking industry is fundamentally different from what it was two decades ago, let alone in 1933,'; Rubin testified before the House Committee on Banking and Financial Services in May of 1995.


    “Glass-Steagall could conceivably impede safety and soundness by limiting revenue diversification,” Rubin argued.





    While the industry saw much deregulation over the years preceding these events, the Gramm-Leach-Biley Act of 1999, which eliminated Glass-Steagall, extended and ratified changes that had been enacted with previous legislation. Ultimately, the repeal of the New Deal era protection allowed commercial lenders like Rubin’s Citigroup to underwrite and trade instruments like mortgage backed securities along with collateralized debt and established structured investment vehicles (SIVs), which purchased these securities. In short, as the lines were blurred among investment banks, commercial banks and insurance companies, when one industry fell, others could too.





    ********





    Joseph Stiglitz:


    ';Houses of cards, chickens coming home to roost - pick your cliche. The new low in the financial crisis, which has prompted comparisons with the 1929 Wall Street crash, is the fruit of a pattern of dishonesty on the part of financial institutions, and incompetence on the part of policymakers.





    We had become accustomed to the hypocrisy. The banks reject any suggestion they should face regulation, rebuff any move towards anti-trust measures - yet when trouble strikes, all of a sudden they demand state intervention: they must be bailed out; they are too big, too important to be allowed to fail.';





    AMY GOODMAN: What is your response to the passage of the bailout by the Senate?





    JOSEPH STIGLITZ: Well, I think it remains a very bad bill. It is a disappointment, but not a surprise, that the administration came up with a bill that is again based on trickle-down economics. You throw enough money at Wall Street, and some of it will trickle down to the rest of the economy. It’s like a patient suffering from giving a massive blood transfusion while there’s internal bleeding; it doesn’t do anything about the basic source of the hemorrhaging, the foreclosure problem.
    He knows that fixing the economy will be a huge problem, and that it may very well fail. That's why he's bringing in Governess Granholm from Michigan ( my home state ). She has flubbed up Michigan so bad that it may never heal, thus using her advice will give him a great scapegoat.


    He's not stupid, he's covering his butt, way before it needs covering.
    he never once claimed to know all the answers and anyone that thought he knew all of them is ignorant and dangerous.





    but not as ignorant and dangerous as some wingnut that puts words in peoples mouths and characterizes 53% of americans as retards.
    Because he knows that the proposals he made during the campaign would harm the economy and is looking for actual solutions now that he has been elected..
    he is not a ecomonist he is a politician he would more than likely need advice from bankers and the like so his plans will work remember the numbers need to fit
    Presidents have advisers.
    Because he is a lawyer and not an economist
    The problem is so immense that you need a meeting of the greatest minds to try to find an answer.
    So that other people can get blamed when it doesn't work.
    Because he is smarter then Bush.
    b/c even jesus had 12 apostles
    'The man with a plan' didn't have a plan, thats why.
    I wish Gordo had done the same over here!
    sensible if you ask me ,see what others think and then make his own mind up

    Need advice to seek second opinion?

    Hello, I am 37 yr old Female. I have had two laps due to ovary being stuck to right intestine


    plus adhesions plus ovarian cysts. On left side, ovarian cysts plus endrometriosis.


    My laps were in 2000 and 2002. Been on Birth control for 9 years. I had my annual


    check up in april. It was very painful. Never has been before. Several weeks later,


    I started bleeding even though i was on the pill. Plus I had pain in my left side near my left ovary.


    I know about break thru bleeding, but this wasnt it. that is diff. I then had a 2 inch by 1 inch piece of ';meat'; fall into the toilet.


    The bleeding stopped for exactly 24 hours, but that night I had hideous pain.


    I then resumed bleeding and it was clots... big clots. I told the nurse what happened and she


    thought I was preg and lost a baby. I told her NO WAY! CANT BE! I went to the dr. and she


    had no idea as to were that ';meat'; came from. She could not tell me why i had that type of pain and


    symptoms. I then had a vaginal ultrasound done. As the test was being preformed and afterward, I cried in the bathroom because the pain was so bad on the left side. Today, June 11th,2009, she told me all I had


    was a small fibriod in my uterus. I kept telling her about my history over and over. I tell her about that pain over and over. Seemed like she wasnt paying attention. Then told me in 3 months come back. If I still have this pain she may do a diagnostic lap.


    If I still have the pain go to the ER in meantime. I asked about a hysterectomy and she was like that wouldnt help endo can always come back. I have had previous drs tell me that wasnt so.


    So, I need to know, should I get a second opinion? Should I just wait around? I dont have insurance since I am laid off from work. I go to UAMS ,. Its a teaching hospital and a world class leader in medical science. I thought it would be a good place to go with this problem. www.uams.edu


    Any one out there with suggestions or just anything I would greatly appreciate it.


    Thanks


    sevenandthe_raggedtigerNeed advice to seek second opinion?
    I would defiantly get a second opinion. Anytime a doctor seems unresponsive to your concerns get a second opinion it can save your life. The problem with ';teaching hospitals'; is they are doing just that teaching so you are dealing with studentsNeed advice to seek second opinion?
    endometriosis can always come back even after a hysterectomy, but in your case I think that even if it does, you will have some relief from all this pain and bleeding.


    You really need to think it through especially if you will want children.


    Research and get all the info you can.


    This is a good site to join www.hystersisters.com

    Word of advice regarding seeking your partner?

    Ideally, you should be seeking someone who is the same age as you.





    If you just happen, by chance, to connect with someone a few years older or a few years younger, fine, good for you...........


    but don't be PURPOSELY trying to make that age difference happen by searching for someone older or younger. Seriously.


    Cut out the stereotyping that a husband has to be 5 years older than his wife.Word of advice regarding seeking your partner?
    I agree. My boyfriend is almost two years older than me and we didn't plan it that way. Heck, my sister's boyfriend is 7 years older than her. It shouldn't matter how old or young your partner should be, as long you love that person. Age is just a number, not a requirement.

    If a questioning youth seeks your advice, what is the first thing you will say to him/her?

    One sentence only please.If a questioning youth seeks your advice, what is the first thing you will say to him/her?
    ';Whatever you are going through you can tell me and I will try my best to help you with it.';If a questioning youth seeks your advice, what is the first thing you will say to him/her?
    It depends on what i am doing....





    If i am talkin a shower, then i will tell him/her to tell me later, but if i am in a time when i am well, then i will tell this youth seeking advicer





    ';i'm listening'; :)
    I answer questions across a couple different topics on here, so it would really have to be relevant to that ';area of discussion'; (i.e. computers. science, religion, GLBT, entertainment... etc.).
    No use to label yourself , be yourself %26amp; remember being different can be a good thing.
    ';Don't worry about it, in a month from now you won't even remember it.';
    Depends on what advice they are seeking...
    Nobody has all the answers.
    I tell him how terrific he is.
    Good luck.
    Google it.
    Advice on what? Kind of a broad question don't ya think?
    I'd ask:





    ';So, what's your question?';
    depends on the question duh lol

    Travel by car from Mumbai to Kolhapur (suggestions/advice sought)?

    I am planning to travel from Mumbai to Kolhapur by road. I will be traveling with my family (wife %26amp; my parents). I plan to use my car and only I can drive. I have heard NH4 is very well maintained road beyond Pune too. I would like your special suggestions/advice about the planned travel, time to start from Mumbai, frequency / places of halts during the journey, any special precautions to taken for the car (I use petrol Wagon R).Travel by car from Mumbai to Kolhapur (suggestions/advice sought)?
    This is nice journey. Drive Slowly. It is nice road. but lots ghat section. Other then that nothing to worry. Day time traveling is betterTravel by car from Mumbai to Kolhapur (suggestions/advice sought)?
    This is a long drive. Prepare yourself mentally.





    Use Mumbai-Pune Express highway to cut down on travel time. Less traffic allows you to cut time - no need to be in 100+ driving speed range. The Expressway takes out even the Pune city traffic as it will take you to Katraj ghat sections.





    Start early - drive at a comfy speed - take stops every 2 hours or so - you will reach Kolhapur in much better mind frame.





    Beware of curves ( since u r in Wagon R ). Slow down near curves.





    Try filling up the petrol tank upto max 2/3rd capacity. Though it means more stops at petrol pumps, it means less load to carry.





    Happy journey.
    better travel by train
    Mumbai to Kolhapur by road is approximately 385 kms and would take about 8-9 hours to reach. If you are the only driver, I hope you have the stamina to drive this much in a single day. I feel you should leave early morning by 5- 6 am to beat the morning Mumbai traffic and you would reach Kolhapur by 2 or 3 pm. Ensure you car has enough coolant, check air pressure in the tyres. Surely check the extra tyre in case of puncture etc. Hope you have a 'car jack';.





    The driving directions are:-





    1 Straight (1.8 km) on Mathuradas Vasanji Rd going toward Pipe Line Rd


    2 Continue down Andheri Ghatkopar Rd: 2.6 km.


    Via Ghatkopar West. Enter Andheri East.


    3 Left onto Lal Bahadur Shastri Marg, go 0.3 km.


    Leave Andheri East. Via Andheri East. Enter Vidya Vihar.


    4 3rd Right onto Mahatma Gandhi Rd, go 2.6 km.


    Via Ghatkopar West, Vidya Vihar, Ghatkopar East. Enter Tilak Nagar.


    5 Sharp Left onto Eastern Expy, go 0.3 km


    6 Slight 1st Left onto Eastern Expy(NH3 Hwy), go 0.3 km.


    Enter Chembur.


    7 Slight 1st Left onto Eastern Expy, go 0.3 km.


    Enter Tilak Nagar.


    8 1st Right onto Veermata Jijabai Bhosle Marg, go 3.9 km.


    Via Chembur, Govandi. Enter Mankhurd.


    9 Take Slight Left, go %26lt;100m


    10 Slight 1st Left onto Bombay Panvel Rd, go 0.4 km


    11 Continue down Sion Panvel Expy: 1.8 km


    12 Slight 1st Left onto Sion Panvel Expy, go 4 km.


    Via Thane District at 3.2 km.


    Enter Navi Mumbai at 3.8 km.


    13 Straight (Keep Right) on Sion Panvel Expy flyover, go 2.4 km


    14 Straight on Sion Panvel Expy flyover, go 0.2 km


    15 Take Right fork onto Sion Panvel Expy.


    Enter Midc.


    16 Straight (Keep Right) on Sion Panvel Expy flyover, go 3.2 km.


    Enter Hightrelic Colony.


    17 Straight (Keep Right) on Sion Panvel Expy flyover, go 2.8 km


    18 Straight (Keep Right) on Sion Panvel Expy flyover, go 2.8 km.


    Enter Kopri Village.


    19 Straight (Keep Right) on Sion Panvel Expy flyover, go 2.4 km


    20 Straight (Keep Right) on Sion Panvel Expy flyover, go 5.2 km.


    Enter Panvel West.


    21 Continue down Mumbai Pune Expy: 28 km


    22 Right onto SH87 Hwy, go 0.2 km


    23 1st Left onto SH92 Hwy, go 8.3 km


    24 Slight Left onto SH92 Hwy, go 31 km.


    Via Pali at 23 km.


    25 Left onto NH17 Hwy, go 57 km.


    Via Utekhol at 35 km.


    26 Slight Left onto NH17 Hwy, go 5.2 km


    27 Slight Left onto NH17 Hwy, go 2.6 km


    28 Slight Right onto NH17 Hwy, go 13 km.


    Enter Poladpur at 11 km.


    29 Slight Left onto SH72 Hwy, go 18 km.


    Leave Poladpur.


    30 Continue down SH46 Hwy: 5.7 km.


    Enter Satara District.


    31 Sharp Right onto SH46 Hwy, go 1.5 km


    32 1st Left onto SH46 Hwy, go 2.7 km.


    Enter Mahabaleshwar at 2 km.


    33 Continue down SH58 Hwy: 45 km.


    Enter Satara District at 6.9 km.


    34 Slight Right onto NH4 Hwy, go 3 km.


    Enter Satara.


    35 At roundabout, take 1st exit onto NH4 Hwy, go 2.5 km overall


    36 Right onto NH4 Hwy, go 108 km.


    Enter Satara District.


    Via Karad at 49 km.


    Via Sangli District at 76 km.


    Enter Kolhapur District at 92 km.


    37 Slight Right onto SH136 Hwy, go 7.7 km.


    Enter Kolhapur at 5.8 km.


    38 At roundabout, take 2nd exit, go 1.1 km overall


    39 At roundabout, take 2nd exit, go 1 km overall


    40 At roundabout, take 2nd exit onto NH4 Hwy, go 0.2 km overall


    41 Take 1st Right, go 0.4 km


    42 Arrive at destination








    It might help... Have a safe drive...

    Advice I seek; Desperation is afoot!!!?

    A'ight...I'm a manic depressive high school student in a small town and I am in love with a very good friend of mine (a girl, no worries) and have been for...well...awhile. However, she's had a boyfriend...well...for awhile, and I have lost all mind...starvation, sleep deprivation, the works, and I fear I will cease to function if I don't have her. How do I get her? What in God's name do I do? I've tried to tell her, but she gave a slight intimation that she does not believe me. Anything, if even at the behest of unsubstantiated criticism, to further my situation would be greatly appreciated.Advice I seek; Desperation is afoot!!!?
    Wow. You're in high school? I absolutely love the title of this question, ';Desperation is afoot!!!'; First of all, you seem like a really smart guy. Amazingly, you use proper grammar and punctuation (which is more than I can say for most of the lovely people on Yahoo! Answers). I'd try one more time with this girl. If she ';doesn't believe you'; or doesn't seem interested - by all means - find a girl who will appreciate your affection and intellect.Advice I seek; Desperation is afoot!!!?
    Find a way to captivate her undivided attention even if just for long enough to express yourself. Let her know how much you admire her Then leave it at that.
    express your feelings.





    better now, cause the longer she's with that other guy, the more she'll like him over you.
    Start speaking in sentences that she can understand. That might help.
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  • Seeking career advice: obtain a masters or real estate license?

    i currently have a ba in journalism, worked five years as a small magazine editor/writer. am now working at a national medical equipment company, waiting for a promised sales position to open...i am getting impatient. i want to make more money. would you all recommend getting my master's or obtaining my real estate license. i am a writer at heart (with a book in the works) but in the meantime, i want to make some dough!Seeking career advice: obtain a masters or real estate license?
    It never hurts to have a real estate license although the economy has currently killed the real estate market.





    Long term, you'd be better off with a masters.Seeking career advice: obtain a masters or real estate license?
    I don't think real estate is really good at this time. Why not get your masters..it would take just as long as a real estate if you go full time and you know education is never wasted. With a masters you can get any job ..even if it isn't in your field. They want degrees....





    If the real estate market picks up...then go for that.....





    right now the time isn't right for that. I have several friends that are real estate people and they are hurting..no one wants to buy right now. We thought about selling our house and getting a smaller one....our house is 5000 sq feet...but no way could we get what it is worth right now....even with their help.....





    I would get a masters ....you are never wrong with that.
    Do both.





    I really say get your masters because thats more valuable and harder to get.





    You can get a Real Estate License fairly easy. Thats why I say do both.





    1. Take the Real Estate Classes now and start working Part time while in school for you Masters.
    Depends if you want to invest a littlle or a lot.


    You can be successful at anything you choose, as long as you have a passion and LOVE it.





    I am a nurse- and I like that-


    but recently I got involved with the travel industry- and I LOVE that. It took a lot less money and is just as- if not more lucrative.





    so do what you LOVE.


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    email me back at farahandmariah@yahoo.com
    Uh....go for the Masters. Real Estate market has been kinda tough...ya know..

    Job seeking advice. Should I mention the position that's available?

    I'd like to work at the Hilton Fort Lauderdale airport hotel. But the positions available isn't that appealing to me. I'd worked in a hotel before but as a reception. The point I'm trying to make is, I don't mind what kind of position I get, I just don't want to label the specific job..in case their are better positions available.Job seeking advice. Should I mention the position that's available?
    Rather than getting disappointed after getting the job it is better not to get it coz someone else might want what you don't want. The point here is...be specific to what you want and GO for it and I am confident that when you are sure of what you want, 'you will get it.' All the very Best.

    Is it to late I had a c-section 8mnths ago and is seeking advice on how to get my stomach to go down.?

    I'm trying to get my stomach to go down but it seems so hard any advice please!!!Is it to late I had a c-section 8mnths ago and is seeking advice on how to get my stomach to go down.?
    Its normal. I had a c section as well. Its harder to get back down to size when you had a c section. It took me 9 months and the only reason i lost the rest of the weight was because i had the stomach flu. Dont worrie to much. Trust me if your baby is 8 months old you will be dropping the weight in no time.Is it to late I had a c-section 8mnths ago and is seeking advice on how to get my stomach to go down.?
    Exercise. 8 months postpartum, your uterus is back to normal size. What you have is belly fat.

    Opening a Bar seeking best advice?

    I am planning to open a bar in the San Diego area what is the best first step to take regarding this venture?Opening a Bar seeking best advice?
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    Seeking advice for my 3 year-old who bites at preschool?

    My son turned 3 at the beginning of September. At the same time, we enrolled him in a wonderful Montessori preschool program. This is his first exposure to any type of preschool or daycare program. He loves going to school, and his teacher tells me he is very sweet %26amp; bright, follows instructions well, and is eager to participate. However, he has now had 3 incidents of biting another child. His teacher says he does this in conflict situations and/or when he feels frustrated (e.g., another child taking something from him). Interestingly, these incidents occur on the playground, not in the classroom. His teacher tells me that since he is so young, it is nothing to truly be concerned about, and that we all must be consistent in addressing the behavior and teaching him to use words to express anger or frustration. I guess I'm looking for reassurance that this is not abnormal behavior, and I'd also like any advice on ways to deal with the problem. Is he perhaps not yet ready for school?Seeking advice for my 3 year-old who bites at preschool?
    This is absolutely normal for the age, the first time in school situation, and the teacher is right... teaching him ways to ';use his words'; will really help. Young children are still in the ';me'; stage... they are very egocentric and believe that everything revolves around them. This is why they have to be taught to share- they believe everything truly belongs only to them! : ) The situations you describe (conflicts with another child, frustration) are the most common reasons a child bites. Obviously this teacher is trained enough to recognize the reasons that your child is biting others, which is a big help in being able to modify the behavior. Behaviors such as this are not an indicator that he is not ready for school, it just shows that he has limited experience dealing with issues that come from being in a group. He lacks social experience. Time will help take care of most of the problem... as he matures, and his language abilities develop, the biting will subside (as long as the teachers are addressing the behavior and showing him how to use words to get his message across). The best things to do:


    -Call attention to times when others are hurt, feeling sad, angry or disgusted. Talk to your son about the name of that feeling, and what it means; ';He fell down and hurt his leg. That made him sad. He is crying.'; It may seem like a ';no-brainer'; to figure out why someone is feeling a certain way, but it is not obvious to children. They don't understand the abstract concept of feelings yet.


    - Talk about what happens when your son does something to someone else. ';When you pushed Jimmy, it made him sad.'; Calling attention to the cause and effect of feelings helps to show your child that what they do can affect others. They need to understand that another person can have the same feelings they do in order to understand to be empathetic.


    - Show him facial expressions. Find a book about feelings that shows the facial expressions of those feelings (or you can make faces in a mirror). Showing children how to recognize feelings on another person's face will help them be able to recognize what another person is feeling.Seeking advice for my 3 year-old who bites at preschool?
    most little kids go through a ';biting';phase especially little boys I'm sure it will pass but still give him some kind of punishment(no dessert or a smack on the hand)it will sure pass soon though
    A lot of little kids bite. I do not think it is anything to worry about, just something that needs to be corrected. If you just (and the teacher) continue to let him know that its not ok to bit, then he should grow out of it. good luck
    you safe, the last time i bite my sister i was 9 years old, when i was young, a spanking, not a beating, was the answer to get your attention and keep it pointed in the right direction.





    i am 55 and still believe that spanking, not beating, is a good way to teach a child right from wrong, to me time out just gives them more time to think of ways to get into trouble.
    he bites?
    my 7 year old cousin did that when she was 2 and 3 years old. she grew out of it but the best way to get him out of it is everytime he does it you take something away from him and tell him he'll get it back in a certain amount of days and everytime he does it do the same thing but take it longer. also explain to him that its not good to do that and he could get sick that way. and if he likes going tell him your not going to let him go anymore if he does it again.
    3 years old is too young for school unless you don't have time for him anymore......4 is good for preschool age kids 5 yrs if he is the only child....... conflict situation of anger and frustration does sometimes cause this kind of reaction ...my kids went thru them also....
    My daughter, at 2 1/2 to 3 1/4 was a hitter/grabber/kicker, also in conflict situations. The more moms I talked, the more I heard that it is normal, or at least it happens a lot. We do not believe in spanking/hitting/violence at home, so she did not learn that behavior from us. It's true that little ones just don't have the communication skills to express their feelings. We need to help them learn those skills, or other ways to express their feelings.





    I took a class called ';Pushing the Limits'; through a community child behavior center in southern California. I learned to pay very close attention to all of the circumstances around her violent outbursts. In our case, it happened mostly when she had skipped breakfast. She was grouchy because she was hungry and wasn't able to identify hunger as the cause of her bad mood. Along with making sure she was equipped with ample snacks, we did a lot of role playing of what to do in conflict situations.





    This might sound weird but we were given homework assignments to have ';special time'; with our kids three times a week. This is a 15 minute session where the kid gets our full attention and gets to pick whatever game/activity we do and gets to tell us what to do, completely... even how to feel. In those 15 minutes I learned so much about my daughter, and myself.





    Good luck.





    BTW... I hope nobody here tells you to spank or bite your kid back. That will only reinforce the behavior.
    First of all, forget the rude answer red top gives. Biting is normal. I have taught early headstart and regular headstart for some time now. I deal with kids who bite everyday. Usually it's out of frustration of not being able to express theymselves. Sometimes it's out of anger if another won't share...the list goes on. If the children are teething that may have something to do with it too. Much of the advice you've been given by others here is good advice. Keep explaining that biting hurts. As your child learns more words the biting incidents will diminish.





    Lastly, all kids bite at one time or another. Some do it more than others. It's not your fault or anyone else's so don't let that red top person make you think so. Good luck.
    Assuming you've already warned your child at least once (which is all it should take since a child is supposed to obey their parent) the next time you simply say ';what did I tell you about biting?'; and they'll tell you that you said ';not to bite';. Then you you whoop them (couple good swats on their ***) and tell them they better listen to you next time.





    The abnormal behavior will come in when the child grows up thinking that he doesn't have to listen. There is no quicker or enduring punishment than spanking (not beating) for those of you that are ready to call protective services haha.





    I can't tell you how many people have told me over the years how well behaved my kids are. And they are happy kids who understand that there is no reason to hit or harm another person except in self-defense. Or if that person is their child and they are teaching them how to be a respectful human being.





    Trust me it only takes 1 time to get the point across...twice if they are stubborn.
    Leave him be. He'll grow out of it.


    We all did weird things as a child.
    To be completely honest he's going to be just fine. I had the same problem when I was in pre-school. You just need to teach him that hurting someone just because he doesn't get his way isn't the way to handle it. Once he learns that biting is not ok then you won't have any problems. Seems a little cruel I know but every time he bites you could make him bite the soap bar, then eventually he would associate biting someone with having to bite that bar of soap. Good Luck!!
    this is good thing,
    As a lot of people said before me, a lot of little kids bite or hit etc. It's just because they don't know how to store their anger yet. So just keep talking to him about it and give him appropriate punishments.
    the mothyer teaches him not bite not the teacher he should have been taught that a the first bite
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  • I have genital herpes and I am seeking support and advice from others. Can anyone help me?

    I found out that I have genital herpes a few months ago. I'm very emotional about it and I don't how to deal with it. I'm concerned with how this will affect my life. I'm single but I desire to be married and have a family someday and I feel like people would run once they knew that I have GH. I don't want to give herpes to anyone, yet I want to get married someday and have a healthy sex life. I need direction, help, and comfort right now. I know I can't change the facts but I need to come to terms with this and not cry when I talk about it. What support is available? What do support groups have to offer? What can you suggest that I do to answer questions I have? What type of sex life can I expect now that I have herpes? I don't want to spread this disease. Can I get pregnant and have a healthy pregnancy without spreading herpes? Any direction and/or advice would be greatly appreciated. Thank you to all who read and reach out to me, I really appreciate it.I have genital herpes and I am seeking support and advice from others. Can anyone help me?
    There is no question that this is a diagnosis that no one is happy about receiving. It sucks, but it does get better. The first think you need to remember is to not let herpes define who you are. It is just a virus and in the grand scheme of things, it is far less of an issue in a relationship that a lot of other baggage that exists out there.





    When I found out I had herpes I was in shock. I never slept around and have had far fewer partners that anyone else I know. How could that happen to me? It was like I had a big sign over my head that told everyone that *I* was the one. But since then I have found out that there are so many of us out there! Between 25- 40% of the population has genital herpes! We are everywhere! No one can tell who we are, and those who love us see it for what it is. Just a minor inconvenience from time to time, but nothing more.





    Yes, of course you can get married, have a healthy sex life, and have children. My husband is h- and it makes no difference to him if I have it. Over 25% of all babies born in the US are born to mothers with genital herpes. So that is not an issue.





    There are ways to avoid spreading the virus, but it is also possible that you will find someone who already has it. You did not say what type you have, but as many as 90% of the population has type 1 herpes. If that is what you have, then chances are you do not need to worry about spreading it anyway. Those who reject you for having herpes are probably not worth being in your life anyway. Decent people will see you for who you are, and not focus on the virus that is no more than a cold sore.





    A really good on line support group is located at http://www.racoon.com/herpes/index.htmlI have genital herpes and I am seeking support and advice from others. Can anyone help me?
    you should check out mpwh.net (MPWH=Meet People With Herpes)

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    hi, welcome to the club. not that we wanted to be members but it helps to know you are not alone, i was diagnosed with herpes about a year and a half ago. i caught it from my ex-boyfriend in year 3 of our relationship. i never thought i would get an STD. I never slept around. My ex was my 2nd partner. I wore condoms and this still happened. I was naturally devastated when i found out. I cried about it a lot. I dumped my ex and i havent dated anyone since for two reasons: i dont really trust people anymore and i am afraid of people judging me. I want to be married on day and have kids two. My doctor assures me I can have healthy kids. If i have an outbreak during labor, a c-section will be performed. I am currently looking for a support group. I think it would help to meet other people in the same situation. I know there are dating websites for people with herpes but I am not the ';online dating'; type. So for now I am just working on being the best me I can be (physically, mentally, and spiritually). Hopefully I will learn to trust again but until then I need to be alone. I know it sucks having herpes but look at it this way. It is not HIV, AIDS or cancer. If herpes is the worst thing that happens to me life can still be good. Hope I helped.
    I was diagnosed as having genital herpes 10 years ago, amazingly enough I contacted it through receiving oral sex from a guy with a cold sore so readers beware you don't need to have intercourse. The first outbreak was terrible but mostly due to the flu like symptoms I suffered from. I felt very isolated and stigmatised and I suppose I still do. Since this first attack I haven't been aware of another outbreak so if there has been one it wasn't bad enough for me to notice. I have had two children in the last 7 years and it didn't effect my pregnancies at all though if you have an outbreak while your delivering your baby it could be passed on to the baby but only in a vaginal delivery obviously! but even then not to worry because this is easily cleared up. I do understand how you feel but once you get over the stigma you'll be fine. Another thing you can only pass the virus on if you have an outbreak, but if you use condoms you should be fine, and you don't have to tell every guy you sleep with only if you feel comfortable and it's a long term thing. One more thing don't be ashamed and don't label yourself you may never get another outbreak and if you do at least it's something treatable and not hiv.
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    I too felt just like you are feeling now when I was diagnosed. However in the last 5 years the episodes have become less. I do suffer more in summer and when I am stressed. I know when I am going to have an episode as I tingle right the way down to my feet, get achy and head ache as well as the obvious. Outbreaks only last max 10 days and do clear up quicker in time. You will be able to have babies, if you are suffering at the time of labour you may be advised to have a C Section.





    Don't despair life does go on. There are lots of websites and some are a bit conflicting. Taking minerals is meant to help, I have not tried it. I had been a carrier for many years before I had my first episode and was happily married at that time. My husband has never had any symptoms and it is possible he passed it on to me. However you will know when you are infected and will not want contact.





    There are worst things that you could be diagnosed with, that is what I tell myself. My heart does go out to you, but you will be fine.





    Ask your local STD Clinic if you can talk to their counsellor.