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everything is going downhill!


i just got my report card and i got a B- in english! its horrible i worked so hard to at least get an A or B...but that mean teacher still gave me a B-. it's important for me to get goood grades...i'm thinking about changing teacher..should I? i'm in high school.


on top of that i'm the only 16 year without a job and i need to support my family since my mother is very sick (kidney failure) and she will be in dyalisis.


I have too much stress and i'm also trying to stp watching ponr..i watch it once in a while...yes i'm a very confused teen (and female) i'm scared i don't know what to do! i;m messed up :(Seek immediate advice..Read!?
Clearly you have a lot on your plate. It seems as though you've had a lot of trauma in your life as well. I have several pieces of advice for you. First off cut out the porn, it's crap, it is not a positive thing for you. In fact although you might desperately want a boyfriend or to become physical with your guy friends- don't. You're not ready and you will be seeking things in a partner that are likely to be unhealthy for you. (A boyfriend will not substitute a father or mother, their love or support). Keep this in mind. You might laugh but becoming a ';prude'; or kind of old fashioned about boys and dating will only help you at this point in time. You need to focus on having good friendships with other girls, not catty gossipy relationships but solid friends. The best thing for you is stability and you need to do all that you can do to get it. (This also applied to drugs as well, don't experiment no matter how much you want to or feel curious, you seem like you're in a bad situation and using/abusing substances will *not* help you one bit).





You are 16 you need to take responsibility for yourself and your actions. You got a B- for a reason, it is unlikely that the teacher was ';mean'; or ';hated'; you or something like that. Growing up starts now. That doesn't mean that you can't talk to her though, in fact I would encourage you to do so. Ask ';What can I do better? Why did I get this grade? Where do I need to improve?'; Teachers love it when students show interest, when you get a bad grade don't storm out of the classroom and immediately start talking trash about the teacher saying that ';she's so dumb'; or is ';so mean';, stay after and ask why you got that grade and how you can do better next time. It will pay off. Right now your biggest focus should be school, it will be your ticket to rise socio-economically.





If your school offers counseling go see one. Ask about college, ask about how to deal with issues at home ask and talk about stuff that's on your mind. This will help. Seek advice and help from adults who care and you can trust. Stay on the ';straight and narrow'; path, it will be hard but you will improve your life if you do.





About your mother and her health. Is it absolutely necessary for you to work? If it isn't I would say don't because you need to focus on school. If it is make sure you have exhausted all other places you could get financial assistance from. Obviously you are connected to the internet, use it! It is a great tool, check out assistance, see if you qualify.





Hope that helps. Best of luck. Feel free to message me if you want more advice.Seek immediate advice..Read!?
1) B- is not terrible, yeah it sucks but it's just counted as a B on your GPA


2) Get a job?


3) Watching porn is ok, everyone does it
B- is not bad look for part time work porn will get boring after awhile it did for me. Hope ur mom is gonna be ok. While work is good best support for ur mom is due god in school so u can get scholarship b- wont kill that just due in other classes