Wednesday, July 28, 2010

Seeking advice on web aussie domain server and how i get someone to set it up with all I require?

I need a domain name, a server and help to setup...I want a forum based site, with databases, photo section, live chat, all community based. Am totally iliterate in this area. Please can someone help?Seeking advice on web aussie domain server and how i get someone to set it up with all I require?
1.)When you say server do you mean hosting? If you mean hosting then you can get that at many webhosting sites (I suggest www.1and1.com), If you meant a server then I would suggest getting a vps from 1%26amp;1 too. With either package you get a free domain.





2.)Live chat thats pretty easy you need to find a IRC server which you can choose from (I suggest you look on http://searchirc.com/) and then download PJIRC and set up the config to your channel on the IRC server.





3.) Invasion forums or phpbb forums with good knowledge of CSS.





4.) Photo section comes with Invasion forums (I think)


or you could make your own using CSS, Flash, Or use Coppermine Photo Gallery.





Not to be forward but this sounds like a porn site :P


I would suggest getting a professional web designer or just learning the basics of webdesign and build up your knownledge of webdesignSeeking advice on web aussie domain server and how i get someone to set it up with all I require?
GoDaddy.com for the domain, you won't find cheaper.





If you want something that you can do yourself there are several options that are free.





http://www.dotnetnuke.com/


http://msdn2.microsoft.com/en-us/vbasic/鈥?/a>





are two.





Make sure you get someone that will set them up so you don't have to. They won't do all the work but you can tweak them yourself with little or no work.





For the website I'd use





http://www.re-invent.com/





They will set up one of these pages automatically for you when they set up your web space.

Seeking advice on how to build strong self confidence and fight inferiority?

I think confidence is like a rubber band. We need to stretch it, by realizing each day that we are a unique individual that no one else is like us, with talents and gifts just waiting to be discovered. And, understand that Self worth and Self Confidence is just that , in our selves. That, No one else can give it to us.


We are subjected to others views and ideas of who we are, But, that ridicule and thoughtless comments by one or many does not a person make. WE make who we are by what we do, not what others say. A Star only shines as bright as the fire that burns from within. The self confidence and worth we personally develop can combat anything if we truly believe in ourselves. I know, been there so deeply feeling a failure, i couldn't function. I turned it around, by basically reprogramming my internal faulty beliefs others had planted. Got the negative people out of my life, and found excitement, joy and peace I never knew before!


Find one thing you have wanted to do,but never thought could accomplish.. Take steps to learn, study and then believe!.. I got into Marital Arts.. that one i never thought i could or would do.. the first board i broke many years ago gave me a whole new sense of power and worth i never thought i would experience.. years later... well, lets say .. I am still doing more and more of the things in life once i only dreamed of doing. I have even performed.


good life to you!Seeking advice on how to build strong self confidence and fight inferiority?
What is that ';inferiority'; that you talk about? Self confidence is built after overcoming all kinds of problems with resolution. First you have to realize that there's no such thing as inferiority, then you will not feel inferior, because you can't consider yourself something that doesn't exists.Seeking advice on how to build strong self confidence and fight inferiority?
Fake it until it feels real.





In other words, act like the person you want to be. The internal stuff will follow.





It worked for me.
become a Stripper ...... and learn how to hustle people .. that will give you confidence in yourself .....
keep telling yourself good things and great qualities about yourself, i have a friend who post stickers on her bathroom mirror so when she is getting dressed she sees encouraging messages all the time and has started to believe them, it is also good to have a support system and let then know your having issues and they will help you
kill everybody who you might think is superior than you , before you know it people will write books about you
Five Ways to Regain Your Lost Self-Confidence





1.Look at the brighter side.





2. Stop comparing yourself with other people.


Stop looking at other people who seem too happy and comfortable to you from a distance. Stop comparing their comfort with your suffering.





This will only frustrate you further. Focus on yourself and make every effort you can make to go out whenever you are feeling down.





3. Self-pity is very addictive and capable of destroying lives. Instead of indulging in self-pity (though we all do from time to time), take control of your life and take responsibility for your actions, learn from your mistakes and make a fresh start.





4. And yeah鈥on't be bogged down when you hear a ';no';.





5. Are you standing in your own way? In our lives, too, we cause a lot of shadows by standing in the way of our own happiness. In today's world, it is important to be flexible.


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Don鈥檛 forget, there is always a way to regain your lost self-confidence. You just have to look for it. Because finding is reserved for those who search.
Learn to use will power to control your thoughts, feelings and actions in accordance with ethical desires, motives and goals. I am not joking.
1. Try to know yourself better


2. Know your strengths and weaknesses


3. Interact with more people and observe their styles, confidence level and communication


4. Be strong in the subject that you know very well


5. Be focussed in what you do and you want to achieve


6. Try to chant some positive words like ';I CAN'; till you gain confidence


7. I propose you to do meditation for better realization of your yourself


8. Do not assume or take things for granted


9. Do not get carried away


I strongly believe these things will workout for developing self confidence
contest next parliamentary election. all your inferior complex will go!

I am trying to start a wiccan business in arkansas i am seeking any advice and help ?

i am trying to start a wiccan business here in arkansas. i live in a bible belt i want to ease into the magical part and yet keep open to other religions can anyone help me with vendors and about how much it cost?


thanks


jessicaI am trying to start a wiccan business in arkansas i am seeking any advice and help ?
Tarot decks can be bought wholesale from tarotgarden.com You can put out a call for witchy things on any pagan bulletin board, there are artists and crafters there. If you want to soften the impact, you can include a Renaissance/Medieval focus on the shop as well, the SCA is down in the bible belt and you can find local groups to discuss what would be of interest to carry. Dragonmarsh.com out in California does this, 1/2 medieval and 1/2 wiccan/pagan. They have two stores now.





Herbs, books, candles, tarot, pouches, etc. Take a look at the items that New Age stores carry, that'll give you an idea what's of interest. Don't go too Goth or Faerie, those are both sidelines and not part of the main thing you're looking for.

What does Rosie Palm tell you every time you seek her advice?

Does she know your darkest secrets???What does Rosie Palm tell you every time you seek her advice?
No, she does not. Only me and God know my most initmate of secrets and sins. Rosie is only a human who attempts to see into peoples' lives.

Why is that we give advice to other people but we never take our own advice; we only seek other peoples advice

I know what you're talking about! I love giving advice to my friends. I think it's great. But when it comes to taking the advice I give them, I don't.Why is that we give advice to other people but we never take our own advice; we only seek other peoples advice
Everything is great in theory,its practice that's bewildering.Why is that we give advice to other people but we never take our own advice; we only seek other peoples advice
Easy. Psychological position. By someone asking you a question they're presuming that you know the answer. This puts you in a light of knowledge and natural hypnosis will place you at your highest potential for filling out this expectation of others. Not only that, but your detachment from the situation also plays a major role in finding a logical solution. Emotions make everything more complicated. Attachments where there shouldn't be. Dislike where there shouldn't be. It's why Love seems so complicated.
Our thoughts have energy they also have intention, so even if we think we are just giving advice and not taking anything from it, guess what?
Lack of self confidence.





If this is you, you should read ';As A Man Thinketh';, by James Allen. You can download it for free off the net. Takes about 1 1/2 hours to read. It is well worth it and a GREAT confidence builder.
From personal experience, it's more difficult to take my own advice because as Satia said, it holds you accountable. It's easy to dish out advice, because you're not the one with the problem, or the one who has to go through the actions of correcting said problem. Accepting your own advice is admitting you have a problem to fix, and admitting that you're not perfect.
I think we do this because sometimes we think about what is being asked at hand and may take an example from our own lives and realize that wasn't the best choice. And once we realize that we come up with the best possible solution to get people to not to the same stupids things you've done or doing. You can't change the way you are at the drop of a dime especially if you are so used to doing things a certain way. So you tell people what they should do! Taking other people advice gives you some type of assurance.
I learned a long time ago to listen to my own instincts and opinions. So I do listen to my own advice. Usually the first instinct you have about a subject it the right one.





I may ask advice from others only to compare it to my own. To strengthen my perception of things. Not really to follow what their advice is.
We don't seek other's advice with any real intention of taking it, but we usually give it freely. When we give advice, we really should take it ourselves, since deep down it is really meant for us.
Hypocrisy.
Unless I've asked for your advice, please do not take it upon yourself to assume that I want or need your help.





The phenomenon could be called the ';do-gooder';.





Your advice is likely to be from your perspective and your experience in the world. Mine differs. Just because something has worked for you doesn't mean that it will work for me.





It is to a certain extent arrogant to assume that we have the solutions to other people's problems.





If you won't follow your own advice, then perhaps the advice isn't ask good as what claim it to be.
We don't do that. Or rather, I do not do that. I would not presume to speak for you or others.





In fact, when I give advice I feel it puts a certain degree of accountability into my life. If I tell someone it is foolish or unwise to do something and then go out and do it myself then I am not living my life with true integrity. If anything, giving advice to others has made me a better person because I find myself intentionally living up to my own standards.
because most people think there own advice is bad
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  • I am a native USA citizen. I have invited 3 Nepali men to live in my home with me. I seek your advice?

    I am a 51-year-old single man. I have never had a family and would love to help and be friends with new residents of America. I know that the cultural differences are very great. I am aware of many differences. It is my philosophy to love everyone equally and in the same way. Some of my friends think I am crazy to go from living alone to living with 3 people. My feeling is that life is short. These men have given me an opportunity to have them in my home as family. I also hope to help them on the road to good careers so that they can help many Nepali people. Nepal is a very, very poor country. I would especially like to hear from Nepali people or people who are familiar with the culture. What advice do you have for me? Thank you. Dhanyabad.


    Namaste.I am a native USA citizen. I have invited 3 Nepali men to live in my home with me. I seek your advice?
    it is unfortunate no one was able to help you





    鈾傗檪I am a native USA citizen. I have invited 3 Nepali men to live in my home with me. I seek your advice?
    you are poor then nepali , you have no family !! at least neplease have their own family..! cmn,, dont try to be rich.!! neplease will enter in in your home like bullet, lol....

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    Do i have to seek for attorneys advice or do i need some papers to prove that my marriage was null and void?

    We are not living together for 7 years now and I want to marry another guy. Do i have to fix my previous marriage which is null and void before I marry again?Do i have to seek for attorneys advice or do i need some papers to prove that my marriage was null and void?
    You mean you got an annulment? or you just seperated for 7 years? if its seperation you need to talk to a lawyer...dont know how annulments work....





    also you can always call the county clerks office where youll have to obtain your marriage license and ask themDo i have to seek for attorneys advice or do i need some papers to prove that my marriage was null and void?
    Yes. I am assuming your are in the U.S. You need to have a divorce or an anullment before you can get remarried. Otherwise you will be considered a bigamist, which is a crime. Many states have ';pro se'; (do-it-yourself) divorce forms that you can represent yourself and file. If you have no children, marital property or debt, it should not be complicated for you to file on your own. Otherwise, it can be tricky.





    Look on your state's supreme court website. Most have an area for self-represented individuals. However, if you can afford it, it is always better to consult an attorney.

    Seeking advice for abandon a dog?

    I have two dogs, golden retriever eight years old, one of them is a trouble maker. Whenever it hears some sorts of sound like cannon or gun fireing it will become crazy and unrest. (My house is near to an army camp). Recenly it becomes even worse and it has broken a few pieces of my window glass and has hurt ifself. I have two very young grandchildren stay with me and I worry it could hurt them. Now I want to give them up to ASPA and seek you advice what proper procedure should I go through.Seeking advice for abandon a dog?
    So you have 2 dogs and one is reactive to loud noises, right? You haven't bothered to try and densentise the noise reactive dog or done any training at all?


    Now you can't be bothered with either of the dogs so you want to 'get rid of' the noise reactive one and the other dog.





    If they have been spayed and neutered take them to GR rescue. If they are still entire, the least you can do is give them a chance and have them desexed. Rescue should not have to bear the cost of spaying/neutering your dogs. That's your responsibility.





    At 8 years old your dog has a better chance of finding another home if it has been spayed/neutered. People are reluctant to take on old dogs as the best of times, let alone entire dogs.





    Do not ever be tempted to get another dog. Dogs deserve a permanent home when you take on the responsibility of owing them. They don't have a use by date. I feel very sad for these dogs.





    ADDED: To those who are advising her to train the dogs. No hope. She no longer wants the dogs...see the word *abandon* in the question. She wants to abandon the dogs.Seeking advice for abandon a dog?
    You can do one of two things to get rid of your dog: Call golden retriever rescue, or call your local animal shelter and ask them about the procedures for giving up a dog.





    Be aware of the fact that a dog that old will be hard to place- it might be easier for everyone involved if you just work with a trainer to work on their fear of loud noises.





    Don't just abandon them somewhere and assume they will be found and well cared for by someone- more than likely they will be hit and killed by a car or starve to death before someone finds them ESPECIALLY if they are the nervous personality type of dog and I don't think that's what you want on your conscience. (Not to mention its illegal and will get you in all sorts of trouble.)
    it is perfectly normal for dogs to be afraid of loud sounds, especially cannons for heaven's sake! that is extremely depressing. go to or look in the phone book for a no kill shelter if there is one. or try to sell them i would think people would easily take golden retrievers. dont give them away free to a good home unless they are people you know because the people who take those dogs use them for testing and they're better off asleep. what a shame and a waste of dogs that are probably nice. and how lazy are you? i mean i would think you could just stand outside of Walmart and talk to people for an hour and find someone nice who wanted a golden retriever.
    Call your local shelter and ask them.





    Of course, you could contact the national breed club and put the dog in their rescue program. Goldens are popular, and someone who lives far enough away from the camp would probably have a great dog.





    You could call your vet; if the times that the shooting happens are on a schedule, you could put your dog on tranquilizers. If there's an animal behaviorist in town, they could help you re-train the dog to help him with his gunshyness (that's what it is).
    i personally think that you should just get him trained at a pet school or train them yourself. never abandon a dog because I'm great with dogs and i know a lot about dogs. and i know that if they get abandoned they will never forget their original owner and if they're attached then they will go through depression. :(
    Dont give up on your dog. My friends dog was just like that, they sent him to a training camp for 6 weeks, he came back a calm cooll and collected dog, I am a golden owner and I know how well they can change and behave. I know this option is pricey but please dont send your animal away.
    You should try getting them trained or gating off certain places near the windows. If you really feel like there are no more options, go to your nearest no-kill shelter. Do not go to ASPA because they are a kill shelter. Keep in mind that it's harder to find homes for older dogs.
    go to a no kill shelter and walk it in they will ask you to sign a release form then u leave the dog and they will find it a good home google aspca's for your area and find the nearest one
    free dog to good home. alway works

    Periods started age 12.... now 16 and still irregular... should I be worried/ seek medical advice?

    5ft 5 inches


    100 lbs


    16


    bad skin ( not what I would consider 'acne') was prescribed topical lotions which did not help.Periods started age 12.... now 16 and still irregular... should I be worried/ seek medical advice?
    u shuld go to ur doc, and get some birth control. it happened to me, and i had to get on a bcp, my doc prescribed me norynil 1+35, and now i have regualr periodsPeriods started age 12.... now 16 and still irregular... should I be worried/ seek medical advice?
    yes yes yes.


    irregular periods after 2 years (give or take) is bad.


    go to your doc!
    This has nothing to do with the Q but your underweight almost severely underweight.As for the Q go to the doctor.
    I got prescribed Dianete for my bad skin AND for controlling my periods.


    I would very much recommend seeing your doctor about something like that, it's really helped

    Moving from an ARM to a fixed rate loan. Seeking advice on the best process.?

    I have been in my home for 3 years and I need to try and refinance my main mortgage (I have a 2nd as well). October 1, 2007, my ARM rate jumps from 5% to 7%. I have refinanced my last home, so I know the process somewhat, but I am a bit terrified this time around because it looks like even with moving to a fixed in the high 6s, my monthly out of pocket cost is going up about $1000. So I am looking for ways to ensure I am getting the best loan possible.





    I went to my bank who said that they can get me 7.19% fixed with no points and no closing costs or 6.5% fixed with no points but with closing costs (which will cost me around $12,000, but would be wrapped in and financed over the 30 years - ugh!). I am thinking about doing the Lending Tree application but I don't really want to field 10 different mortgage reps' calls over the next 3 days. I think it's worth it if I can get a better deal, though. Right?





    Any advice on best practices for this scary process would be helpful.Moving from an ARM to a fixed rate loan. Seeking advice on the best process.?
    I would definitely shop around, but don't use lending tree. Just go to a few different banks or a few local mortgage brokers to get different quotes.


    The absolute best place to start is to ask your friends and family if they have someone they've used that was worth recommending to you. After that, I'd say to try your local chamber of commerce/bbb for listings there.Moving from an ARM to a fixed rate loan. Seeking advice on the best process.?
    It sounds like your bank is offering you a great deal! Lock it. If you are going to be in that house forever, pay the costs. If there is a chance you might move, do the no cost. Rates are going nowhere but up.
    If your rate goes no higher than 7%, the two loans your bank offered don't make any sense to me. If it can go substantially higher, I would consider it. And taking those Lending Tree calls might be worth it.
    Unless your loan amount is $800K or more, your local bank is not even offering you a true ';no points, but with closing costs'; scenario. $12K is 1.5% of $800K, which is a fair estimate of closing costs for that size of loan. My question to you, is what is the size of your loan in respect to that gross figure for closing costs???





    If you need professional advice, email me here or at work.





    Work Email: ahamilton1@1stmetro.net





    -Alexander
    the price for no closing costs is higher that the 12 k


    read the this article and see for yourself. there is a better way to get a great rate and term. this is the only site i have found that i can find this information. they gave me the best rate and i have had friends go to them with no problems!


    with the stuff they reveal i doubt many brokers like them.





    I'refinanced with them they came in the best of all 4 i had





    the best i have found was directlendingplanet
    Skip Lending Tree. Stay local.





    But start shopping.





    $12K in closing costs (without any origination or discount points) is outrageous, unless you're financing $1 million or so.





    Ask around to people you know, see if you can find a few good referrals to loan officers they trust. But still shop several.
    Call Home Dream Loans , they are so good in this , ask for Giovanna Gallo
    bad bad bad noclosing cost laons are bad!!!!





    lending tree sells your info to many brokers





    bad idea lending tree is a marketing company plain and simple. you ll get tond of callls emils not what you wnat and not what you need to get valid ideas


    read the truth about no closing cost loans and see if you still think its a good deal





    go to a good source


    directlendingplanet.com is a directlender!

    I want to start Dog Bussiness as Part time job seeking advice from some Expierecend Dog Lovers ?

    i am a Philosophy hon 2 year student





    i want to earn something part time





    for dog business can you advice me something





    i have fund for it,i will start with my FriendI want to start Dog Bussiness as Part time job seeking advice from some Expierecend Dog Lovers ?
    Do you want to start your own business or work for someone?


    If you want to start your own business then that will take some time to get going, maybe a year or two before you get regular work. But one idea you could try is dog walking, or looking after dogs in your home while people are at work or on holiday, but you will need insurance for that just in case something happens to the dog in your care.





    To get regular work %26amp; money each month you would need to work for someone, look in your local paper under job vacancies or look in the yellow pages under boarding kennels, and ring them up and ask if they have any job vacancies. If you don't mind working away from home, another way to find dog jobs is to look in the Our Dogs or Dogs World magazine for job vacancies, if your lucky you might be able to get a job in show kennels.
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  • New Garden Grower seeks advice?

    I have a Rotor Tiller, I have the spot I want to plant my garden and I have the veggie plants ready to go. However I have never had a garden and I would really like for it to grow. I have cucumber, zucchini, iceberg lettuce, jalapeno, banana peppers, if anyone has any do's or don'ts I would really appreciate it. By the way my soil is kind of a sandy mix, my flowers seem to grow ok in it, hoping my garden will too. Thanks!New Garden Grower seeks advice?
    Welcome to our world of wonder and frustration. It is great that you have the rototiller. Do you have anything else? For example have you purchased a Sphagnum Moss, a granular fertilizer, Gypsum, Bone Meal, markers, etc?





    Soil, soil, soil! That and irrigation make a garden. Are you prepared for the pest that will invade your garden? Do you have the stakes and cages for the zucchini, cucumbers, and pepper plantings? It is a truth that you must begin before you begin.





    Having a rototiller and determination is a great beginning. It can also lead to frustration and quitting. Planning is more than a word and more than 50% of success. While time is short now action is a must. With the exception of the Lettuce all you plants require a similar soil. You are about two months beyond planting the lettuce for any success.





    Get thyself to a Box Store and purchase Sphagnum Moss, screened topsoil, granular gypsum, granular bone meal, 10-10-10 with minerals granular fertilizer, and the stakes, ties, cages, etc. Do Not Rototill until you have the soil additives on hand and ready to use. These materials can be bought in the generic form as they are actually better.





    Rototill the area giving yourself enough area for the plants and yourself to work at it. This means that you need a minimum of three foot from the base of the outside plants. Till, as best you can for three inches in depth. Remove the debris you bring up. Leave it alone for at least two days to a week to allow the air to work into the soil.





    Not knowing the size add the medium amount of Gypsum, the Max of 10-10-10 with minerals, and till again at two to three inches. Let that set for an hour (have a beverage of your choice.) Spread the Sphagnum Moss at one half bag per 1,000 sq ft. and the topsoil at one bag per 1,000 on top.


    Rototill that at the two inch level, then, till it deeper (4';) for a few minutes.





    Use a heavy rake on the tilled soil to make the beds for your plants. Rake into mounds about two or three inches high. This will leave the watering gullies you need. Plant you seedlings or seeds in the center of the mounds. Every one of these plants need 1' in seperation in the row!





    There is dispute as to what to do now. I would prefer to put the cages into the ground around the plantings while the soil is both pliable and the roots not developed. This is your choice. Regardless of the dispute, what is not in dispute is to stake the rows for content and deeply irrigate the plants.


    Do Not Do This By Hand. A small movable overhead sprinkler is best.





    The Lettuce should have been started in a GreenHouse in Feb-Mar. Try it. It may wilt and actually attract insects and disease. If you see any just junk it. In the meantime prepare yourself for both insect and disease. You can purchase a conventional spray, an organic spray, and all all good products. I will tell you that a combination of Ivory Liquid Dish Detergent at 1/4 tsp per quart, sprayed on the plants will kill most pest. Everyother week you do need to spray the stems and underside of the leaves.





    Good Luck and do what you will. Remember it is the soil and not my determination that dictates the success. Sorry about the Lettuce. I am at gjgjobs@yahoo.comNew Garden Grower seeks advice?
    Jalapenos and banana peppers will cross pollinate if planted together. Sandy loam is a good soil. Work in some good compost before you plant. Enjoy!
    add a bunch fo peat moss or garden dirt when you till..
    Buy as maney gardening books as possible watch as maney gardening programmes speak to Horticulturists It is also important in your garden to attract the right insects as this will benefit you in the long run. also to un-attract the wrong insects plant flower beds in between your vegetable beds this will attract the insects to the flower bed rather then your veggie beds.

    Bad answers from Teri. She is wrong on body temp and on appendicitis. Don't listen, and seek better advice.?

    IF you're looking for serious answers that are totally true than you don't go to a web site that's open to the world to answer you go to a respected medical site or to your personal doctor. You never put your life or health in the hands of someone you don't know and don't know their level of education and expertise.Bad answers from Teri. She is wrong on body temp and on appendicitis. Don't listen, and seek better advice.?
    You really don't mention any symptoms or problems for an answer here. Please rewrite including symptoms. Thanks

    Aborigional health isnt in crisis, The parents seeking medical advice when needed,?

    I have a friend with half cast children,, Yes her kids are always ill, its in their blood,, But she is always at the doctors with them because she is responsable {she is white} So i know all the extra help that is avalible for her kids,, She wasnt going to put on there birth certificate that her kids were aborigional but she was told if she did when her kids grow up they will get cheap housing, better deals with centerlink and medicare and probably will never have to work a day in their lives..Aborigional health isnt in crisis, The parents seeking medical advice when needed,?
    WHAT THE HELL ARE HALF CAST CHILDREN?





    Children of mixed lineage are whole people!





    WHAT THE HELL DO YOU MEAN ITS IN THEIR BLOOD?! What exactly are you implying you cowardly ignorant ...argh!





    Then there is the remark about the mom being responsible...did I get that correctly?..because she is white?





    You know all the extra help that is available? Reeeaaally? Obviously it isn't comming from YOU!!!!!





    Never have to work a day in their lives...oh that's rich....she spits.





    You know what? maybe, just maybe, if mom didn't associate with ignorant racist individuals like you...she would feel happy to declare her childrens full heritage instead of depriving them of their treaty rights and full knowledge of their lineage. Yah, you heard me, treaty 'rights'!!! You know that paper work that gives you and I the right to live in North America.





    I gather from the odd lingo you are American. That poor kid!


    Do them both a big favour, and get the hell out of their lives!!!!








    Peace from the, oooohh, biological 'white mother', of three 'very' healthy, gorgeious and intelligent 1/2 aboriginal young men! They're teens and each of them already has job experience! In addition, their father was a high achiever and I have a university degree! So you have a long way to go..back to school darl'n!





    Peace!Aborigional health isnt in crisis, The parents seeking medical advice when needed,?
    LOL you made that up didn't you? I cant believe there are still people that still have these ignorant attitudes so this isn't real. Fancy having more opportunities when you can go through life being discriimnated against. Simple assistance with housing or financial aide should and is available to everyone and personaly, I cant imagine living off the meagre income given to anyone. Fortunately though, I was afforded a 1/2 decent education as a white australian and have been lucky enough to have a 1/2 decent job. stop judging and help people instead of making an already difficult life harder.
    How long have you been in the Republican party?

    I'm new in the leasing of a property,I'm seeking advice on how to prepare a leasing agreement, how can i find

    find tenants that are responsible and reliable, trustworthy, how can i as a landlord protect my myself from tenants that wont pay rent in the future, where can i get that type of advice,do i need legal assistance on this?I'm new in the leasing of a property,I'm seeking advice on how to prepare a leasing agreement, how can i find
    It would be much cheaper to have an attorney draw up the agreement and inform you of your rights and your tenants rights now, than it will be to not use one and have problems down the road! You have to learn how to screen the people and sometimes even that doesn't work! Talk to other people that rent property out and you will hear some horror stories and maybe they can also give you advice!I'm new in the leasing of a property,I'm seeking advice on how to prepare a leasing agreement, how can i find
    You can get standard lease agreements from Office Max and Staples in their business forms section. These cover most standard requirements/issues that you should need.





    As for your tenants, that's always a question. You can take applications and sit and visit with everyone who's interested in renting from you, then pick the one you're most comfortable with. You're also entitled to verify employment and references. I'd check with at least 3 references, and only allow one to be family. Make the other two prior landlords, co-workers, employers or such. You can also check their credit report to make sure they aren't someone likely to skip out on their obligations. (You might need to have them sign an authorization for this in your state.)





    It's illegal to discriminate against someone just because they're a minority, single, have kids, etc. If you disqualify someone for renting from you, it needs to be for a valid reason, like references didn't check out, bad credit risk, etc. Even then, if you're careful and think you have everything covered, you can still end up with a problem tenant.
    We really need to know where the property is located. Because there are tenant laws for each state.


    If you are in the California area. go to SDAA.com


    Try something similar in your state. As far as getting a good tenant. Be sure you run credit checks on each person that will occupy the home that is the age of 18 and over.


    Be sure you have them all sign the lease agreement. Be sure you follow all tenant and landlord laws. If you need any more please let me know.


    Best of luck
    give me an e-mail and will send you a copy of my lease.. be sure to mention yahoo answers and your name here.





    Finding renters is tough, advertising in local newspaper, and at the local university if there is one. I love students the most, as they usually only stay a couple of years and you can get rid of a bad one easy. Families, if they don't pay are a real chore. Best was to judge character is to go on your first impression.

    Oftentimes, do you think you usually seek out advice from right people?

    There are only a handfull of people who I turn to for advise......Ones that I trust and whose opinions I truly value and take to heart. So, yes I do.Oftentimes, do you think you usually seek out advice from right people?
    I try to..but sometime I don't know who the right person isOftentimes, do you think you usually seek out advice from right people?
    We go wrong, quite often.
    I do, Because I know from experience who is a dope and who is wise enough for thoughtful advice.
    yes!!cause i choose who i ask carefully!!
    I always ask Freddie Mercury, but then he died. So now I ask, but as always, i believe what i choose to believe..
    yes .i do.But in the end i take my own decision.
    I rarely ask for advice........too many opinions come into play
    i wouldnt know, because everyone comes to me for advice, and i think i usually do pretty good with helpin them, when it comes to myself tho i always have to figure out stuff for myself, cus even if i ask advice im still going to do what i want to anyway
    yes
    no, right people are usually wrong so I seek advice from left people which are usually right.
    I only seek advice from the non-judgmental ones.
    yes, they would not give advice if they thought it's not the right thing to do, there are no wrong advices, it's you who will decide at the end of it
    Its all very random. I think you may be drawn to the answers you seek, but its up to you to glean the knowledge and hone it to your final decision.
    this is Y/A, how can we not be the right people?lol
    I think wisdom and good advice come from people who have been around a lot longer than you.





    Those are the people that I seek advice from. :) If it's just one of my friends throwing a random tip my way, it's usually disastrous!
    whoa!





    i hope they are the right people





    :)
    yes usually I already know the solution just need second opinion.
    I do try very hard to sort out my own problems.
    They could be lieing but I try to listen to myself before asking others....
    Who is the right person?





    And What is the guy on the lefts name?





    I don't know - shortstop.





    Seriously, I seek out a person and hopefully it is the right person.
    yes most of the time
    I'm not good in judging people so I repeatedly seek advise from wrong people.
    Yes. I know who loves me and has my best interest at heart.

    I'm a business major pondering whether I should go to USC or UCLA, and would like to seek some advice.?

    If I go to UCLA, I would major in Pre Business Econ. If I go to USC, I would major in Business Administration in Marshall. To me, I like both majors, thus the concern is that which shcool may provide a better environment in study and better opportunities in terms of work in the future. Thanks a lot!I'm a business major pondering whether I should go to USC or UCLA, and would like to seek some advice.?
    USC by far!


    I went to SC and had friends that went to ucla. The class size at UCLA is insanely big and they just teach you the basics and really dont interact with you. USC on the other hand is a haven for networking. I had a class taught by Paul Orfalea, the founder of kinkos and in most of my upper division classes, we had these really successful CEOs (alums) come and speak to us. USC is a wealthier, more prestigious and better learning university than UCLA. If you were asking about grad school, the 2 are close but for business undergrad--USC all the way. UCLA in undergrad business is like most other PUBLIC schools and nothing more than that. The Marshall name and network is huge and priceless.


    Plus if your into football -- UCLA is a jokeI'm a business major pondering whether I should go to USC or UCLA, and would like to seek some advice.?
    USC
    UCLA has a better program and environment.
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  • Thank you. I will take all the advice to seek out a dr.?

    Hopefully It's not anything other than poor diet etc. The accu chek I am using to monitor my mg level is an accu chek active. I am 42 btwThank you. I will take all the advice to seek out a dr.?
    If I were you, I would be prepared. You're more than likely diabetic based on those numbers and symptoms from your previous question. Just remember that it's not a death sentence. Merely a wake up call. There are many of us who went through denial at first. You don't have to do that. There's plenty of help available.





    I have turned it around. It was a nuisance, now I thrive on it. It's like a game to see how low I can get my blood glucose numbers with diet and exercise. The more I exercise and the better I eat, the better I feel. I'm 55 and feel like I'm in my thirties. I was diagnosed type two about 5 years ago.Thank you. I will take all the advice to seek out a dr.?
    you will be alight. eat right and eat every thing donot swallow the food. all these fast food cretes proble, have pop corn it is good for you. i am lviing in delhi, india where re living. i am 47 years male. working in public services. regards.
    Losing weight helps a lot.

    If David Deangelo is for dating, Who to seek for Relationship advice?

    David Deangelo put together past knowledge, current experiences in the field of dating.


    Who would you say I could study that be the David Deangelo of relationships?





    ThanksIf David Deangelo is for dating, Who to seek for Relationship advice?
    You can consider Michael Webb and Dr John Gray.


    Both are best selling authors on the topic.If David Deangelo is for dating, Who to seek for Relationship advice?
    I personally think that relationship advice is learned on our own and through personal experiences. David DeAngelo is magic!!

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    Why do people seek medical advice on Yahoo! Answers?

    they're too lazy to search for information themselvesWhy do people seek medical advice on Yahoo! Answers?
    because some people can help eg: i asked a question about my psoriasis because i have tried all the drugs going and people gave me alot of advice which really helped so don't knock it, if you ask the right questions people will helpWhy do people seek medical advice on Yahoo! Answers?
    A couple reasons:





    1) They might be too embarrassed to ask their doc/family members/friends


    2) It's cool cuz nobody knows who you are so private questions aren't so hard to ask


    3) It's easier here to find other people who can relate.
    Because there are people out there who have gone through things and may have remedys that work.


    Doctors don't alwats have the answer.


    They sure do try
    I have always wondered that myself. If these ppl can afford a computer and the internet,shouldnt they be able to afford a Doctor visit?
    Some people may had the same Experience.. So..
    it is the only thing we can afford
    Hoping for a free answer.
    good question, I wonder the same thing to...
    Look its not my fault I have to take 4Th mortgage out on my house in order to afford Insurance. Its cheaper on answers. (but in my defense I almost always ask the question twice, to make sure I have a wide variety of choices)
    I think they just want somebody to talk to about their problems. What is it like 40% of the population is uninsured in the US. 37th in the world and we are the so-called richest nation. It is a shame.

    “Seek simplicity, and distrust it” (Alfred North Whitehead). Is this always good advice for a knower?

    No. In science it's Occam's razor that is prevalent: if there are two solutions or theories, take the simplest one.“Seek simplicity, and distrust it” (Alfred North Whitehead). Is this always good advice for a knower?
    SERIOUSLY?


    way to cheat on tok.


    you should feel bad.

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    Should I seek legal advice due to a drunken incident I was involved in at the weekend? I was arrested but I?

    dont know if I'm being charged. I got into an argument in a pub when I left to go home the guy was outside and I head-butted him (I'm not proud of it) I was then wrestled to the ground by him %26amp; 2 others. I didnt struggle or make any attempt to fight back at this point but whilst I was held down he tried to gouge my left eye out then punched and kick me a few times in the head (two black eyes) before the police arrived. At which point I was arrested and held until the next morning. I have heard through people that know him he has no intentions of pressing charges against me. Does this mean I should not expect an assualt charge but instead a lesser charge like breach of the peace? I was going to wait before I consulted a lawyer but should I do that now? I'm 31 and have no previous convictions so I'm not familiar with things like this ... thanksShould I seek legal advice due to a drunken incident I was involved in at the weekend? I was arrested but I?
    I'm a serving police officer and my advice is:





    If you were bailed to return to the police station then the investigation is ongoing.


    If you were not given a date to return then you were lucky, you've got off this time and should learn from it.


    It's not actually down to the victim to ';Press Charges'; the CPS decide whether you will be charged or not. The victim could give a statement and want you charged, but unless the CPS agree you won't be charged.


    If you have been bailed then if the victim gives a statement, in all liklihood you'll be charged with assault, if he doesn't give one, you should be fine because there is no proof that he didn't invite you to nut him.


    It's likely that because of your injuries the police have decided to take No Further Action.


    My advice is call up the station, tell them who you are and ask them what the score is.Should I seek legal advice due to a drunken incident I was involved in at the weekend? I was arrested but I?
    If you didn't see a Judge before you release the next day, you were not charged of anything. I've been in your shoes once myself, but more importantly, this stuff happens all the time. If the guy you got into a scuffle with is not going to press charges, then don't worry about it. I live in Houston Tx, and when there's a fight between 2 people who have no intent in settling things legally, they'll just throw you in the drunk tank to sleep it off. If no charges are filed, then you might just get hit with a P.I. (public intoxocation) which is a small mistaminor and no fine (time served for the night in jail) Hope this helps
    Well you should have discharge papers and that will tell you what you were charged with. Also you can call the arresting officer and find out your crime. Otherwise wait until you get your court date in the mail.
    I hope you told the cops of the assault that you received at the hands of the other three. Cross complaints should have been filed that night.





    Most likely the complaint will be dropped, but I would not count on it.





    Check with an attorney some one a friend would recommend.
    the police will let you know if your going to be charged so wait until then before you pay out for a lawyer
    i presume from your comments that you have be interviewed and bailed or released pending enquiries. The cps will decide if there is enough evidence to make a case and if he will not press charges it is unlikely. dont waste money on a lawyer untill the old bill come back to you and then a duty solicitor would be able to deal with this one. stick with the i was defending myself line.
    i would`nt worry too much if i were you,i don`t know much about the legalities of these things.although i`m a hairdresser working in a barber shop and here stories like this every saturday morning,from lads who have just been let out avin been locked up all nite and they always get away with it in the end,just chill and don`t drink so much jungle juice next time you go out x
    I think you should consult with an attorney. No sense taking a chance on getting hurt through ignorance.
    YES GET HELP


    YOU WILL NEED IT
    You are guilty of assault, a Glasgow handshake is a bit brutal.


    His friends were right to hold you til police arrived, but your victim went over the top and assaulted you, he was not defending himself, so he is as guilty as you are. I hope you were photographed with your injuries just to prove it. If he signs a statement he wants to charge you, you should do the same, but I think he will ignore it, because he got his revenge. Have you been bailed to return to the Police Station? You must be charged with B of the P at the time.
    It sounds like you should be pressing charges against him as he attacked you, not defended himself. Do you have photographic evidence of your injuries? I wouldn't consult a lawyer until you hear if the police are going to take things further. (Although most law firms will give you a half hour free consultation)
    hard as it sounds waiting is the best policy. if you are charged or even asked back for further questioning then is the time to speak to a solicitor
    If you have not been cautioned and charged, the police may be making further enquiries. Wait, save your money, until you receive a Copy of the Complaint or summons. That will state the charge against you and your first court diet. That is the time to seek legal advice. Give the solicitor as much time as possible to precognose the witnesses.
    I'm sorry but you are very vague. If you've been arrested as you say you would of been released on Police bail to return to the Police station at a later date, but you make no mention of this, why not?


    Are you bailed back to a Police station or not?


    If so you might be charged once the police have taken all the statement and the CPS have reviewed the case, but you haven't even said whether you were interviewed or not, Were you?


    You would normally have an interview before being released.





    Not enough info here, some of which I find surprising you've left out .
    might be a good idea to call an attorney and explain the situation to him/her just so you are aware of what could possibly take place.

    Where to start when seeking financial Advice for the future?

    We are a young family in our 20's still we have 2 young kids we bought are first house at 20 brand new in california with a credit score in the mid 700's But sold in 2005 due to the market we didnt want to get stuck in that house...We have never talked to anyone but family for financial adivce but now we want to get a plan for our future,our kids college etc where do we start? ThanksWhere to start when seeking financial Advice for the future?
    You should stop asking your family for advice and talk to a professional. There are many companies that you can use but one of the best places to start is your own Bank... They are often the ones who you have a loan with, and or your mortgage and are able to refinance or consolidate loans etc to help you with your finances. The bank has financial or investment advisers that will help you plan for your future and unlike other companies it is usually a free service. Call your Bank and tell them that you want to meet with their financial planning adviser.
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  • I seek some advice to spice up our sexual relationship....?

    We love each other dearly. Been together for about 2 1/2 yrs. We do it often enough....but I think that since we do do it so often, that we run out of ideas....





    I am open to anything KINKY....He is willing to try it....





    Any advice? When I say kinky I mean all of it...blindfolds, spankings...ok...a little too much info, but you get the idea...I hope...I seek some advice to spice up our sexual relationship....?
    Maybe you need to stop pushing the sexual envelope and try slowing things down for awhile, rather than always searching for new sexual adventures, because where will it end? Excitement just naturally ebbs and flows - it's perfectly normal.





    Why not try being physically close without having sex? By trying not to touch each other in the obvious places, you will discover different areas that feel wonderful, and soon the physical denial will really start to heat things up.





    But you may also want to ask yourself why you constantly need new ways to have sex. The sex maybe covering up a lot of things missing in the relationship.I seek some advice to spice up our sexual relationship....?
    Ok I would not mind giving you some ideas but not on here..The yahoo police would not like it..Plus are you 21 or over
    Bring a girl into bed, 2 girls is every mans fantasy unless there a homo.
    so whats so kinky about u, u r not into other people sounds


    like thats the drag right there...2bz.
    Try Role Play!!!! also, there are adult stores that have lots of stuff. visit one and see what tickles your fancy... you might be suprised!!
    bring a friend in bed next time
    Get Married and make a commitment - that will change the sex.

    I have a 10 months baby and i pregnant again. seek some advice please?

    congratulations im 4 month pregnant with a six and a half month old these things happen your get your head round it good luck :)I have a 10 months baby and i pregnant again. seek some advice please?
    Congrats?...Lucky you, but seriously you are one lucky lady!

    Kindly advice me on how to tackle depression without having to seek medical attention.?

    if i up my 'making new friends'' attitude, would it help? I have been betrayed too many a time. thanksKindly advice me on how to tackle depression without having to seek medical attention.?
    Hi, i would advise you on seeking a church and finding out about our creater God and how much love and care he has for you. Anything else is only temporary.Kindly advice me on how to tackle depression without having to seek medical attention.?
    I suffer from depression, and i was very wary about going on medication.


    What i started doing was looking in the mirror everyday and telling myself that things would get better and to say one positive thing i did each day. You cant focus on those people that hurt you in the past, you can only look forward. Not everyone out there is ready to screw you over. You need to keep yourself busy, if you shut off from everyone you will dig yourself into a deeper hole and it will be even harder to get out of, try doing new things? Joining clubs? There are loads of things to do, it would be better if you could meet people in your local area who suffer with depression aswell, then you could talk to people and share your problems, there are always loads of support groups available. Things will get better, you just need to get a P.M.A ( positive mental attitude ) If you keep being negative and not wanting to mix with others thats how things will stay, talk to people. Share and most of all be happy :)
    Tickle yourself with a large feather duster!
    yes, if u do it will make u feel more confedent, in turn no more depresion.
    theres a difference in depression and a bad case of meloncoloy(sp)..but real states of depression have to be properly diagnosed...it could be metabolic, or situational and it could be temporary..you need to take care of yourself so you need to treat this properly...just free advice...good luck.
    One sure fire way is to volunteer at a soup kitchen and then you will see just how fortunate you are. Helping others gives you a real satisfaction that you can't get in any other way. It gives you the kind of satisfaction that consumes your idle time to where you forget that you're depressed. Half of all depressions come from a feeling of hopelessness. Doing for others makes you realize that you are not hopeless but in fact full of hope. Now get out there and fill the world with your kindness ! Good Luck ! Ronnie

    Seeking advice on web aussie domain server and how i get someone to set it up with all I require?

    I need a domain name, a server and help to setup...I want a forum based site, with databases, photo section, live chat, all community based. Am totally iliterate in this area. Please can someone help?Seeking advice on web aussie domain server and how i get someone to set it up with all I require?
    1.)When you say server do you mean hosting? If you mean hosting then you can get that at many webhosting sites (I suggest www.1and1.com), If you meant a server then I would suggest getting a vps from 1%26amp;1 too. With either package you get a free domain.





    2.)Live chat thats pretty easy you need to find a IRC server which you can choose from (I suggest you look on http://searchirc.com/) and then download PJIRC and set up the config to your channel on the IRC server.





    3.) Invasion forums or phpbb forums with good knowledge of CSS.





    4.) Photo section comes with Invasion forums (I think)


    or you could make your own using CSS, Flash, Or use Coppermine Photo Gallery.





    Not to be forward but this sounds like a porn site :P


    I would suggest getting a professional web designer or just learning the basics of webdesign and build up your knownledge of webdesignSeeking advice on web aussie domain server and how i get someone to set it up with all I require?
    GoDaddy.com for the domain, you won't find cheaper.





    If you want something that you can do yourself there are several options that are free.





    http://www.dotnetnuke.com/


    http://msdn2.microsoft.com/en-us/vbasic/鈥?/a>





    are two.





    Make sure you get someone that will set them up so you don't have to. They won't do all the work but you can tweak them yourself with little or no work.





    For the website I'd use





    http://www.re-invent.com/





    They will set up one of these pages automatically for you when they set up your web space.

    Seeking advice on how to build strong self confidence and fight inferiority?

    I think confidence is like a rubber band. We need to stretch it, by realizing each day that we are a unique individual that no one else is like us, with talents and gifts just waiting to be discovered. And, understand that Self worth and Self Confidence is just that , in our selves. That, No one else can give it to us.


    We are subjected to others views and ideas of who we are, But, that ridicule and thoughtless comments by one or many does not a person make. WE make who we are by what we do, not what others say. A Star only shines as bright as the fire that burns from within. The self confidence and worth we personally develop can combat anything if we truly believe in ourselves. I know, been there so deeply feeling a failure, i couldn't function. I turned it around, by basically reprogramming my internal faulty beliefs others had planted. Got the negative people out of my life, and found excitement, joy and peace I never knew before!


    Find one thing you have wanted to do,but never thought could accomplish.. Take steps to learn, study and then believe!.. I got into Marital Arts.. that one i never thought i could or would do.. the first board i broke many years ago gave me a whole new sense of power and worth i never thought i would experience.. years later... well, lets say .. I am still doing more and more of the things in life once i only dreamed of doing. I have even performed.


    good life to you!Seeking advice on how to build strong self confidence and fight inferiority?
    What is that ';inferiority'; that you talk about? Self confidence is built after overcoming all kinds of problems with resolution. First you have to realize that there's no such thing as inferiority, then you will not feel inferior, because you can't consider yourself something that doesn't exists.Seeking advice on how to build strong self confidence and fight inferiority?
    Fake it until it feels real.





    In other words, act like the person you want to be. The internal stuff will follow.





    It worked for me.
    become a Stripper ...... and learn how to hustle people .. that will give you confidence in yourself .....
    keep telling yourself good things and great qualities about yourself, i have a friend who post stickers on her bathroom mirror so when she is getting dressed she sees encouraging messages all the time and has started to believe them, it is also good to have a support system and let then know your having issues and they will help you
    kill everybody who you might think is superior than you , before you know it people will write books about you
    Five Ways to Regain Your Lost Self-Confidence





    1.Look at the brighter side.





    2. Stop comparing yourself with other people.


    Stop looking at other people who seem too happy and comfortable to you from a distance. Stop comparing their comfort with your suffering.





    This will only frustrate you further. Focus on yourself and make every effort you can make to go out whenever you are feeling down.





    3. Self-pity is very addictive and capable of destroying lives. Instead of indulging in self-pity (though we all do from time to time), take control of your life and take responsibility for your actions, learn from your mistakes and make a fresh start.





    4. And yeah鈥on't be bogged down when you hear a ';no';.





    5. Are you standing in your own way? In our lives, too, we cause a lot of shadows by standing in the way of our own happiness. In today's world, it is important to be flexible.


    .


    Don鈥檛 forget, there is always a way to regain your lost self-confidence. You just have to look for it. Because finding is reserved for those who search.
    Learn to use will power to control your thoughts, feelings and actions in accordance with ethical desires, motives and goals. I am not joking.
    1. Try to know yourself better


    2. Know your strengths and weaknesses


    3. Interact with more people and observe their styles, confidence level and communication


    4. Be strong in the subject that you know very well


    5. Be focussed in what you do and you want to achieve


    6. Try to chant some positive words like ';I CAN'; till you gain confidence


    7. I propose you to do meditation for better realization of your yourself


    8. Do not assume or take things for granted


    9. Do not get carried away


    I strongly believe these things will workout for developing self confidence
    contest next parliamentary election. all your inferior complex will go!

    I am trying to start a wiccan business in arkansas i am seeking any advice and help ?

    i am trying to start a wiccan business here in arkansas. i live in a bible belt i want to ease into the magical part and yet keep open to other religions can anyone help me with vendors and about how much it cost?


    thanks


    jessicaI am trying to start a wiccan business in arkansas i am seeking any advice and help ?
    Tarot decks can be bought wholesale from tarotgarden.com You can put out a call for witchy things on any pagan bulletin board, there are artists and crafters there. If you want to soften the impact, you can include a Renaissance/Medieval focus on the shop as well, the SCA is down in the bible belt and you can find local groups to discuss what would be of interest to carry. Dragonmarsh.com out in California does this, 1/2 medieval and 1/2 wiccan/pagan. They have two stores now.





    Herbs, books, candles, tarot, pouches, etc. Take a look at the items that New Age stores carry, that'll give you an idea what's of interest. Don't go too Goth or Faerie, those are both sidelines and not part of the main thing you're looking for.
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  • What does Rosie Palm tell you every time you seek her advice?

    Does she know your darkest secrets???What does Rosie Palm tell you every time you seek her advice?
    No, she does not. Only me and God know my most initmate of secrets and sins. Rosie is only a human who attempts to see into peoples' lives.

    Why is that we give advice to other people but we never take our own advice; we only seek other peoples advice

    I know what you're talking about! I love giving advice to my friends. I think it's great. But when it comes to taking the advice I give them, I don't.Why is that we give advice to other people but we never take our own advice; we only seek other peoples advice
    Everything is great in theory,its practice that's bewildering.Why is that we give advice to other people but we never take our own advice; we only seek other peoples advice
    Easy. Psychological position. By someone asking you a question they're presuming that you know the answer. This puts you in a light of knowledge and natural hypnosis will place you at your highest potential for filling out this expectation of others. Not only that, but your detachment from the situation also plays a major role in finding a logical solution. Emotions make everything more complicated. Attachments where there shouldn't be. Dislike where there shouldn't be. It's why Love seems so complicated.
    Our thoughts have energy they also have intention, so even if we think we are just giving advice and not taking anything from it, guess what?
    Lack of self confidence.





    If this is you, you should read ';As A Man Thinketh';, by James Allen. You can download it for free off the net. Takes about 1 1/2 hours to read. It is well worth it and a GREAT confidence builder.
    From personal experience, it's more difficult to take my own advice because as Satia said, it holds you accountable. It's easy to dish out advice, because you're not the one with the problem, or the one who has to go through the actions of correcting said problem. Accepting your own advice is admitting you have a problem to fix, and admitting that you're not perfect.
    I think we do this because sometimes we think about what is being asked at hand and may take an example from our own lives and realize that wasn't the best choice. And once we realize that we come up with the best possible solution to get people to not to the same stupids things you've done or doing. You can't change the way you are at the drop of a dime especially if you are so used to doing things a certain way. So you tell people what they should do! Taking other people advice gives you some type of assurance.
    I learned a long time ago to listen to my own instincts and opinions. So I do listen to my own advice. Usually the first instinct you have about a subject it the right one.





    I may ask advice from others only to compare it to my own. To strengthen my perception of things. Not really to follow what their advice is.
    We don't seek other's advice with any real intention of taking it, but we usually give it freely. When we give advice, we really should take it ourselves, since deep down it is really meant for us.
    Hypocrisy.
    Unless I've asked for your advice, please do not take it upon yourself to assume that I want or need your help.





    The phenomenon could be called the ';do-gooder';.





    Your advice is likely to be from your perspective and your experience in the world. Mine differs. Just because something has worked for you doesn't mean that it will work for me.





    It is to a certain extent arrogant to assume that we have the solutions to other people's problems.





    If you won't follow your own advice, then perhaps the advice isn't ask good as what claim it to be.
    We don't do that. Or rather, I do not do that. I would not presume to speak for you or others.





    In fact, when I give advice I feel it puts a certain degree of accountability into my life. If I tell someone it is foolish or unwise to do something and then go out and do it myself then I am not living my life with true integrity. If anything, giving advice to others has made me a better person because I find myself intentionally living up to my own standards.
    because most people think there own advice is bad

    I am a native USA citizen. I have invited 3 Nepali men to live in my home with me. I seek your advice?

    I am a 51-year-old single man. I have never had a family and would love to help and be friends with new residents of America. I know that the cultural differences are very great. I am aware of many differences. It is my philosophy to love everyone equally and in the same way. Some of my friends think I am crazy to go from living alone to living with 3 people. My feeling is that life is short. These men have given me an opportunity to have them in my home as family. I also hope to help them on the road to good careers so that they can help many Nepali people. Nepal is a very, very poor country. I would especially like to hear from Nepali people or people who are familiar with the culture. What advice do you have for me? Thank you. Dhanyabad.


    Namaste.I am a native USA citizen. I have invited 3 Nepali men to live in my home with me. I seek your advice?
    it is unfortunate no one was able to help you





    鈾傗檪I am a native USA citizen. I have invited 3 Nepali men to live in my home with me. I seek your advice?
    you are poor then nepali , you have no family !! at least neplease have their own family..! cmn,, dont try to be rich.!! neplease will enter in in your home like bullet, lol....

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    Seeking advice for abandon a dog?

    I have two dogs, golden retriever eight years old, one of them is a trouble maker. Whenever it hears some sorts of sound like cannon or gun fireing it will become crazy and unrest. (My house is near to an army camp). Recenly it becomes even worse and it has broken a few pieces of my window glass and has hurt ifself. I have two very young grandchildren stay with me and I worry it could hurt them. Now I want to give them up to ASPA and seek you advice what proper procedure should I go through.Seeking advice for abandon a dog?
    So you have 2 dogs and one is reactive to loud noises, right? You haven't bothered to try and densentise the noise reactive dog or done any training at all?


    Now you can't be bothered with either of the dogs so you want to 'get rid of' the noise reactive one and the other dog.





    If they have been spayed and neutered take them to GR rescue. If they are still entire, the least you can do is give them a chance and have them desexed. Rescue should not have to bear the cost of spaying/neutering your dogs. That's your responsibility.





    At 8 years old your dog has a better chance of finding another home if it has been spayed/neutered. People are reluctant to take on old dogs as the best of times, let alone entire dogs.





    Do not ever be tempted to get another dog. Dogs deserve a permanent home when you take on the responsibility of owing them. They don't have a use by date. I feel very sad for these dogs.





    ADDED: To those who are advising her to train the dogs. No hope. She no longer wants the dogs...see the word *abandon* in the question. She wants to abandon the dogs.Seeking advice for abandon a dog?
    You can do one of two things to get rid of your dog: Call golden retriever rescue, or call your local animal shelter and ask them about the procedures for giving up a dog.





    Be aware of the fact that a dog that old will be hard to place- it might be easier for everyone involved if you just work with a trainer to work on their fear of loud noises.





    Don't just abandon them somewhere and assume they will be found and well cared for by someone- more than likely they will be hit and killed by a car or starve to death before someone finds them ESPECIALLY if they are the nervous personality type of dog and I don't think that's what you want on your conscience. (Not to mention its illegal and will get you in all sorts of trouble.)
    it is perfectly normal for dogs to be afraid of loud sounds, especially cannons for heaven's sake! that is extremely depressing. go to or look in the phone book for a no kill shelter if there is one. or try to sell them i would think people would easily take golden retrievers. dont give them away free to a good home unless they are people you know because the people who take those dogs use them for testing and they're better off asleep. what a shame and a waste of dogs that are probably nice. and how lazy are you? i mean i would think you could just stand outside of Walmart and talk to people for an hour and find someone nice who wanted a golden retriever.
    Call your local shelter and ask them.





    Of course, you could contact the national breed club and put the dog in their rescue program. Goldens are popular, and someone who lives far enough away from the camp would probably have a great dog.





    You could call your vet; if the times that the shooting happens are on a schedule, you could put your dog on tranquilizers. If there's an animal behaviorist in town, they could help you re-train the dog to help him with his gunshyness (that's what it is).
    i personally think that you should just get him trained at a pet school or train them yourself. never abandon a dog because I'm great with dogs and i know a lot about dogs. and i know that if they get abandoned they will never forget their original owner and if they're attached then they will go through depression. :(
    Dont give up on your dog. My friends dog was just like that, they sent him to a training camp for 6 weeks, he came back a calm cooll and collected dog, I am a golden owner and I know how well they can change and behave. I know this option is pricey but please dont send your animal away.
    You should try getting them trained or gating off certain places near the windows. If you really feel like there are no more options, go to your nearest no-kill shelter. Do not go to ASPA because they are a kill shelter. Keep in mind that it's harder to find homes for older dogs.
    go to a no kill shelter and walk it in they will ask you to sign a release form then u leave the dog and they will find it a good home google aspca's for your area and find the nearest one
    free dog to good home. alway works

    Periods started age 12.... now 16 and still irregular... should I be worried/ seek medical advice?

    5ft 5 inches


    100 lbs


    16


    bad skin ( not what I would consider 'acne') was prescribed topical lotions which did not help.Periods started age 12.... now 16 and still irregular... should I be worried/ seek medical advice?
    yes yes yes.


    irregular periods after 2 years (give or take) is bad.


    go to your doc!Periods started age 12.... now 16 and still irregular... should I be worried/ seek medical advice?
    I got prescribed Dianete for my bad skin AND for controlling my periods.


    I would very much recommend seeing your doctor about something like that, it's really helped
    u shuld go to ur doc, and get some birth control. it happened to me, and i had to get on a bcp, my doc prescribed me norynil 1+35, and now i have regualr periods
    This has nothing to do with the Q but your underweight almost severely underweight.As for the Q go to the doctor.

    I'm seeking for advice from the ones who has been in Thailand?

    Hi, we are planning our 2 weeks holiday in Thailand from the 1st of July. Any help-full advice would be much appreciated.


    What are the places not to be missed in Thai?


    Have you been in Thai in July? What about the weather?


    Any recommended places for scuba diving???





    Thank You.I'm seeking for advice from the ones who has been in Thailand?
    Only 2 weeks! Oh boy, it'll be over in a blink of an eye. I would say with amount of time that you have, 5 days in Bangkok would be the max. Definitely stay in the Sukhumvit area, anywhere soi 1-20. It's Very convenient to go to any of the attractions also close to Siam and MBK malls. There is also a sky train that is easy accessible from Sukhumvit.





    Must see Bangkok:


    The grand Palace


    The Emerald Buddha


    Wat Pho


    Also a trip to Ayutthaya(day trip), the ancient capital of Thailand, before it was invaded and burned by the Burmese hundreds of years ago. You can book this with almost any hotel. There are several versions of this Ayutthaya tour, take the one with evening dinner cruise. I made the mistake of not taking the dinner cruise and was stuck in traffic for an hour and a half because the tour is over about 530pm. All the tours start on a bus and end the boat so you can just stay on the boat and eat dinner and look at all the lights of Bangkok, it's pretty cool.





    With the remaining time that you have, I would either go South or go North, you really don't have time to do both.





    South


    Since you want to go Diving, Koh Tao is probably the best spot in Thailand. It is also the cheapest place to get certified, open water course is around 7500 baht, plus fee for you Bungalow 4 days 3 nights. http://www.saireehutresort.com/index.php鈥?/a> or http://www.kohtaobansdiving.com/liveaboa鈥?/a>


    Before you go to Koh Tao you have to fly into Koh Samui, it's a nice place and worth going to, but it's more touristy than Koh Tao. While in Koh Samui I would definitely checkout Ang Thong National Marine Park(day trip) it's absolutely beautiful and can be booked through any resort. You can book your flight to Samui with www.bangkokair.com online. 3 days in Samui and 5 days in Koh Tao.





    North


    Being that it is extremely hot in Thailand in July, if it were me I would go to Chiang Mai and Chaing Rai.





    Must see in Chiang Mai:


    Wat Phrathat Doi Suthep


    Hill Tribe and Botanical gardens


    Mae Sa elephant training center-Watch elephants paint, it's amazing, checkout youtube to find the videos!


    Also take the golden Triangle tour(day trip) can be booked anywhere in Chiang Mai. You'll take a boat across the river into Laos and go to the Northern most point in Thailand and go to the Burmese border. You'll also get to go to the Long-neck tribe, it's really pretty cool.





    If you have any questions just email me I have been to all of the above, and have tons of pictures if you like.I'm seeking for advice from the ones who has been in Thailand?
    2 weeks is not a lot of time in Thailand.





    I myself wouldn't travel too much. Find a place you like and get to know the place. You have have rain...maybe even every day but it never rains all the time, depending if you in the north of south.





    There are many great island where you can scuba dive.
    Hi there. i've been to Bangkok, Thailand. Places not to be missed? a lot actually. Let me give you some.. Got to WAT PO, WAT ARUN %26amp; THE GRAND PALACE while cruising the Chao phraya river. You can do that by getting on a ferry at saphan taksin pier. just ride the BTS Skytrain SILOM line and get off at the saphan taksin station. Fare of the ferry is THB13. One of my favorite temple to visit (when i'm in Bangkok is the WAT PO (entrance fee is THB50). To get there, get off at the THA TIEN PIER (pier code is N8). A 5 mins walk and the Reclining Buddha is waiting for you inside the temple. After the visit, you can hop on to another boat ride this time to WAT ARUN (entrace is THB50) which is right across the THA TIEN PIER. Fare is set at THB3. Then enroute to the GRAND PALACE, just take another boat ride back to THA TIEN then walk for 10mins. Walls of the Palace is visible after a few minutes walk. *****take note**** some bystanders will tell you that the palace is close for a holiday and will offer you another tour instead. JUST IGNORE THEM. Make sure you wear proper attire (no sleeveless for girls and no shorts for the guys) and pay THB350 for the entrance. it's best to do this in the morning to avoid the crowd and the afternoon heat. After this, you can ride a tuktuk (make sure you negotiate the fare before riding the tuktuk)or a taxi and head to KHAO SAN ROAD to chill. Food, drinks and souvenir items are everywhere. After khao san road, you can go to MBK or SIAM PARAGON for some serious shopping experience.





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    Using Phuket as a base, you can explore the best diving sites in the world. In order of (my) preference: Phuket - Samui - Pattaya





    In Bangkok I recommed doing a bicycle tour. That way you can see a lot of the city whrere tourists never come or go to. You'll see how normal Thai people live and work. Plenty of temples, and even some very famous (but not on the tourist track!). In half a day you see more than most expats in 5 years.
    it might be rainy due to moonsoon. Crocdile form and floating market.
    Be sure to visit Phuket
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  • A person with a b1/b2 visa can seek the advice of an immigration lawyer to legalize the stay in u.s.?

    it's your money,so it's your decision.A person with a b1/b2 visa can seek the advice of an immigration lawyer to legalize the stay in u.s.?
    Here's some free advice: A person with a Visitor's visa is here only as a visitor, regardless of how many lawyers you talk to.





    However, there are many people who obtain a visitor's Visa with the intent of remaining permanently in this country. It sounds like that is what is happening here.A person with a b1/b2 visa can seek the advice of an immigration lawyer to legalize the stay in u.s.?
    Absolutely! The only way you can seek help for immigration problems, is through immigration lawyers. I've been dealing with them for 4 years. Be careful tho, that they don't rip you off! some of them can be very expensive!
    Even a killer and a drug dealer can seek the advise of a (proper kind of) lawyer, so long as the lawyer is paid for his/her service. Go ahead and find an immigration lawyer if you need one. Good luck.
    You can seek all of the advice that you want to. It's still illegal for you to stay any longer than your visa specifies.
    Anyone can seek legal advice.... http://www.ailalawyer.org

    Why do so many women seek medical advice on yahoo answers?

    Especially on trying to conceive and pregnant. Why don't they ask their doctors? it's soo annoying.Why do so many women seek medical advice on yahoo answers?
    I get better advice from women who have experience with certain medical issues than doctors. Doctors are good but can be cold or too busy to take time with patients.Why do so many women seek medical advice on yahoo answers?
    Most people ask questions primarily because they CAN! Unfortunately, medical doctors these days just want to fill their pockets with cash, so of course, they offer expensive options. The problem, there are many other options available in many other aspects that are never offered or brought up for people that don't have a lot of money or time. I have learned so much by just reading questions and answers for everyone. I dont' take them all seriously, but buddy, if you get annoyed then maybe you should visit another website!
    Probably because they trust the general public more than a ';doctor'; People who answer here often have personal experience with things versus doctors who just give answers based on their big heavy books.

    Am I gay? just out of curiosity, i seek your advice.?

    I have realized that I am attracted to people differently lately. I have a LDR with another guy, and i love him. he's awesome. But there is also the fact the I'm beggining to look at guys' muscles and stuff lately and i still think that girls are usually more attractive facial wise, but their downstairs is a turn off for me (no offense) and guys' junk is a major turn on. Idk what to say. I'm sure I'm gay, but I'm confused right now. sexually attracted to guys, but girls are prettier and more attractive. help?Am I gay? just out of curiosity, i seek your advice.?
    Girls are the more attractive sex. It seems that you are gay. It's normal to see girls as prettier and more attractive for any orientation but that doesn't necessarily mean you are straight. A guy's dick is a major turn on but even that can be more universal than most people believe. As long as you're sexually attracted to guys and can see yourself in Love with a guy you are at least bi if not gay. Hope this helps and go with whatever you're most comfortable with.Am I gay? just out of curiosity, i seek your advice.?
    If girls turn you off then you're gay dear. You thinking that girls look better facial wise just means that you aren't blind. I notice guys that have cute faces (not as an interest but as, ';Aww, he's cute';) and I am a lesbian.


    However I could be wrong. That's just my opinion on it. You could just be bi and leaning more towards men. Check out the Kinsey scale (if you haven't already) and see where you fall that way you'll have a better idea of where you're at.
    Yeah, I can tell if a girl is really attractive or not- but, well, they don't turn me on sexually at all. Guys, however, they're *HOT*, if you understand the difference. If you want to chat with me and sort this out a bit, feel free to e-mail me- I've already helped like two guys accept themselves as gay, and of course, I've been there and done that, but without anyone's help. So yeah, I'm more than happy to help.
    Hey finally someone i have something in common with i totally understand what your saying dude like im totally in love with girls but sometimes i catch myself looking at guys maybe its just like a fase or something but im starting to think im Bi so maybe you might be going through a fase too or maybe your just Bi lol











    =} SOMETIMES YOU JUST HAVE TO SMILE {=
    I can't tell if your gay or not. Only you can tell.
    Wow, you just confused me intensely, lol..I think you need to just stick with your guy, girls aren't worth it.
    You will find out soon enough young one.
    If you like the same gender then you're gay.
    i'd say ur bisexual

    I'm about to replace my 20 gig harddrive with a 160 gig drive in my 7 yr old sony laptop. Seeking advice?

    Our 20 gig hardrive is partitioned. Windows XP with the latest updates along with an antivirus program takes up 9 gig. I am tired of the warning that pops up telling me I am running low on disk space on drive C. I recently wiped the harddrive clean and restored it. I now have 1 gig of free space on drive C. What do you think?I'm about to replace my 20 gig harddrive with a 160 gig drive in my 7 yr old sony laptop. Seeking advice?
    I have upgraded the harddrive on 2 out of the 3 Dell Notebook PCs we own. One was older Dell Latitude D800 Pentium M chip requiring PATA/IDE hard drive and other was brand new Dell Latitude D620 but only had original 40GB SATA hard drive. In both instances, I bought IBM Travelstar and had good luck/success with no problems. Seagate and Western Digital makes quality 2.5'; hard drives





    What you did not indicate in your description was ';Where are you buying this replacement PATA hard drive?'; bec if I were in your shoes (i) I would look/shop for best price locally from store like MICROCENTER, Best Buy, Staples etc rather than on-line since prices had dropped a lot since I did my upgrades and (ii) I would inquire about potential refund policy before making purchase or opening pkg as well as being aware maybe that you only so days bec if you should have a contingency game plan if you encountered trouble/problems during installation and loading Windows XP...





    Hope the Above Info Helps!I'm about to replace my 20 gig harddrive with a 160 gig drive in my 7 yr old sony laptop. Seeking advice?
    If it works OK.. than use it.. but to put a 160 Gb hard drive on a computer that is worth about $25 doesn't seem to make a lot of sense to me.

    I am a 24 year old seeking career advice. What can I do to help me decide on a career path?

    I am a 24 year old construction worker. I went to a technical school for auto body. I did auto body for 3 years then changed careers to construction.The money is decent but the job is terrible. I really need to change careers and I have no idea where to start. I haven't decided on going back to school or joining the military or switching to another job. I can't make my mind up can anyone or anything help?I am a 24 year old seeking career advice. What can I do to help me decide on a career path?
    Read the books ';48 Days to the Work You Love'; and ';No More Mondays';. Those can help you find the path to the work that will make you the happiest.I am a 24 year old seeking career advice. What can I do to help me decide on a career path?
    I would say to choose something that you think you would enjoy for a lifetime, something that you like so much it doesn't even seem like work. Oh, wait... I did that. Bachelor's degree in from an accredited university, perfect job straight out of college, got laid off and can't find ANYTHING. I am working at a fast food restaurant to pay my bills. No lie.

    Will Mrs. Spitzer seek the advice of Hillary Clinton, and ';Stand By Your Man';?

    What say you?Will Mrs. Spitzer seek the advice of Hillary Clinton, and ';Stand By Your Man';?
    Maybe, it appeared Mrs. Spitzer was supporting him during his brief statement.Will Mrs. Spitzer seek the advice of Hillary Clinton, and ';Stand By Your Man';?
    I think the two of them are going to a male strip club this evening to compare notes. It is under the auspicious occasion of campaigning so they can use campaign finance money to pay for it.
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  • Should I seek medical advice...Can not contain liquids?

    I am having a lot of abdominal pain, but I have a high pain tolerance. I have pain on scale of 1-10 about an 8.5 under like my breast bone area that feels like a crampy stuffiness (hard to explain) and about a 9 of lower abdominal pain. I also have very watery diaherra (TMI I KNOW) I have been eating nothing but bread today and had some plain noodles to try and comorft my stomach! I have also been drinking gatorade all day and the mere sip of it sends me flying to the bathroom! I can not contain any liquids or solids with out a bathroom trip! I am also having nausea way beyond a 10!! Any advice at all...Should I seek medical advice...Can not contain liquids?
    Sounds like Irritable Bowel to me . Just make sure you don't get DEHYDRATED from losing too much water , and you should be fine .





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    Hi what you mentioned fits the picture of Nervous colon or Irritable Bowel . Many types of food ,especially fatty and spicy ones , cause cramps and gas and diarrhea .


    SO


    If you are having cramps that do not result in anything coming out , and have excessive GAS , then you definitely have an Irritable bowel .


    BUT


    If the main complaint is a continuous diarrhea , with the cramps coinciding with the diarrhea , and if you have other symptoms like fever , then you definitely have an infection , possibly from eating the meat .


    AND


    If there is only diarrhea , a little pain , and no fever , then you might have some kind of reaction to the meat because you never had it before . This will improve with some Imodium , and it will not happen again once you get used to the new type of food .








    About the posts before and after this one :


    I never realized gall bladder disease can manifest as cramps and diarrhea . Gall bladder OBSTRUCTION might cause STEATORRHEA , which is an oily diarrhea , but at that stage , the condition will be so painful , the person will most likely be in the hospital .Should I seek medical advice...Can not contain liquids?
    Sounds like gastroenteritis to me! you may have got it from an airborne virus or contaminated food or water. Go see your Doctor ASAP. They'll test your stools. If it is gastroentiritis from a norovirus (in this case you would be projectile vomiting as well) it should pass in a few days. In any case you need to see your doctor. They may give you antibiotics (if it's not a virus) but at the very least they can give you anti spasmodics and something to calm down the sick feeling.





    You must go ASAP as dehydration can take hold extremely quickly and you may need IV fluids.





    I would suggest you go to Emergency at your nearest hospital if your doc is closed. Good luck!
    Get yourself to a doctor.


    It could be many things . I am thinking Gall Bladder problems ?





    Feel better soon.
    with the pain, I think a visit to the med stop is in order or a call to your doctor, most have an after hours Dr for the office that takes calls, you leave a message with their answering service then they call you back. Or call the med stop or hospital, but usually they will tell you to come in. The diarrhea can be explained away as flu and so can the nausea but the pain indicates something more severe. I would not wait for more answers but call right now. Let me know what they say, I am thinking that it is a gall bladder concern as well.
    Although the pain and the symptoms can relate to a lot of bugs out there. The problem is that your electrolytes will become out of whack--since you're not keeping anything inside of you.


    Which means, you won't be able to start to heal until your body has what it needs to correct itself. Basically all the systems rely on that balance, including your immune system.


    A trip to the doctor, can help relieve pain and do a complete assessment to find the exact cause. In the mean time, I would try drinking something with electrolytes--gatorade does not have what your body needs

    I have been bitten by a dog which was diagnosed as having clostridium, do i need to seek medical advice ?

    Dear God, I hope you got to a hospital within 36 hours, because if you aren't put on an IV and given special anti-inflammatory and anti-viral medications, you will die. Don't bother putting your computer to sleep. Go to the hospital now! NOW!I have been bitten by a dog which was diagnosed as having clostridium, do i need to seek medical advice ?
    ANY dog , for that matter ANY bite [especialy human]is VERY dangerous. since this question was writen a week ago i asume your problem has been resolve one way or the other . but if it happens again, dont ask questions ,get to the emergency room.I have been bitten by a dog which was diagnosed as having clostridium, do i need to seek medical advice ?
    ofcourse u have!!!as soon as u can becouse it is very serious!!!

    I think I am in perimenopause, how long can a period last before seeking medical advice?

    I am 39 and my periods were never regular until after my last child. Now my period has lasted 17 days and counting, when do I go make sure nothing else is going on? Are there any other things to watch out for?I think I am in perimenopause, how long can a period last before seeking medical advice?
    You may get more responses in womens health....


    Most of us here are preggo or TTC and not menopausal in the least...


    Good luck to youI think I am in perimenopause, how long can a period last before seeking medical advice?
    Not to freak you out but yes there is something very serious to watch for and it happens a lot when you are nearing menopause. Go see your OBGYN for an emergency appointment, tell them you need a sonogram of your ovaries, that you have been bleeding for 17 days and you are worried you ruptured a cyst. My friend Cheryl had this at age 41 and when she finally went the blood had filled her abdomen and she required surgery and was in a GREAT deal of pain. Call now, don't just assume you are okay.

    Seeking advice for a college major?

    I have been going to school off and on for a few years now, but the major thing holding me back is my indecisiveness in choosing a major. I have the dilemma in doing what I love vs. doing something that will prove lucrative. I don't want to be a starving artist, but I enjoy writing and art. Along with that I want something that has stability, financial security, and something I won't have a hard time getting a job in. Any suggestions on a major that fits that criteria?Seeking advice for a college major?
    Be an English teacherSeeking advice for a college major?
    You have a very conflicting situation here as jobs in the arts/writing can be very difficult to find, and may not be the best paying. Take some things into consideration. Is being able to afford some of the finer things in life more important than being able to be a professional artist. Could you perhaps pursue a more lucrative profession that will allow you to practice your art/writing on the side. Would you be willing to move across country to pursue your passion? There are many, many options with any major, but you have to be willing to search them out.
    Editor, illustrator. Major in communications, minor in art.
    journalism or teacher